-- Posted by merryberrycherry at 11:42 am on Jan. 12, 2009 I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3, 4months?? He hasn't done anything wrong, he's a bit boring and soppy, but in the general of things he is the most lovely boy there is. But I'm struggling with a lot of stress right now, with school and work and parents, working through some sort of eatind disorder and severe depression. I just want to get out of the relationship as it's putting more pressure on me and stress. How can I dump him nicely with some excuse as to why? I want a short and sweet break up because I don't want it to be too awkward. HELP PLEASE!! -- Posted by HANCOCK at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Tell him exactly what you told us. -- Posted by EmmitWinchell at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 just tell him and if you two what to get back together then get back together with him. -- Posted by Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help? -- Posted by dorothyedgmon at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009 tell hiim what you told us and hopefully he'll understand. even tell him you dont want him to take this any other way and dont want drama too start by this break up.... -- Posted by strandedgirli at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009 fuck his friend -- Posted by Aerie at 11:45 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 2:44 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help? This. -- Posted by wcm wrestling at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Tell him how you feel -- Posted by atomictastic at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 2:44 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help? Exactly my words. -- Posted by La Motta at 11:46 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Tell him you're pregnant. He'll run! -- Posted by AngelOfTheNight at 11:48 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help? this -- Posted by picklez118 at 11:51 am on Jan. 12, 2009 i liked it better when we were friends. we had so much fun then. id like to be friends again. -- Posted by Points at 11:52 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Tell him it's nothing against him, but it's not the best time for you to pursue a relationship. -- Posted by Joep0113 at 11:53 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help? This But if i was him if you were going to dump me i'd rather it was quick and to the point instead of dancing around it for awhile. -- Posted by SpasticTurnip at 11:53 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from AngelOfTheNight at 7:48 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Quote: from Tyler4758 at 11:44 am on Jan. 12, 2009 Would breaking up with him really solve your issues right now? Breaking up with him in my opinion would make him feel like he IS the problem. Have you tried asking him for help? this Agreed. -- Posted by Peppermintxo at 12:03 pm on Jan. 12, 2009 Just tell him what you told us.