-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:10 am on Jan. 14, 2009 okay so i want my bf to always say im beautiful , open doors for me always want to hangout with me everyday , always want to talk to me and be there for me and always pay attention to me and do whatever makes me happy and always tell mehe loves me, of course it would go both ways but is that too much.. -- Posted by NEGATIVE0 at 8:11 am on Jan. 14, 2009 ... yes, yes it is. lower your expectations, plz. -- Posted by Trashed at 8:11 am on Jan. 14, 2009 I'd be shocked if you ever got a guy to do that for you, I don't think guys like that exist IRL -- Posted by strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009 I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009 It's ok to want that, not to expect it. -- Posted by My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:13 am on Jan. 14, 2009 It's not too much only guys would think so.. -- Posted by Rastafarian at 8:13 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Sure if you'll suck their cock at the drop of a hat, I'm sure many would do it. -- Posted by Micus at 8:14 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from Rastafarian at 11:13 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Sure if you'll suck their cock at the drop of a hat, I'm sure many would do it. Sounds about right. -- Posted by 17sexy at 8:15 am on Jan. 14, 2009 hey can't do those things everyday or all the time give hi a brake -- Posted by leykis 101 at 8:15 am on Jan. 14, 2009 it is wrong. if he did that he would be a pussy and you would get bored with him quickly and probably cheat on him. -- Posted by My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009 I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys haha...and I still don't see why everybody is crazy about his looks or whatever..ew -- Posted by Miss Vanity at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 It's normal to want, but I wouldn't expect it. -- Posted by strandedgirli at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from leykis 101 at 8:15 am on Jan. 14, 2009 it is wrong. if he did that he would be a pussy and you would get bored with him quickly and probably cheat on him. b-b-bingo. -- Posted by Sour at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 ITs okay to want this stuff, but not okay to go psycho over it. MY bf's ex gf did the same stuff. And then shed go crazy over not having what she wants. Rather I am laid back and dont care much about those. UNLESS we are together and hes ignoring me then thats a whole different story -- Posted by californiabreee at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 lol my ex did that ALL the time. I would walk through doors and i would think that that is not a big deal... apparently to him it was....  well anyways, he was the perfect (dream) guy and then.... he turned out gay.  I broke up with him because i had to move and he told me that he was using me as a coverup and and then he started to make out with his friend.... i havent dated since. -- Posted by sammiroo at 8:17 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Maybe in the beginning of your relationship he would, but eventually things would die down. -- Posted by strandedgirli at 8:17 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009 I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys haha...and I still don't see why everybody is crazy about his looks or whatever..ew it's not his looks that has raised girls expectations of -- Posted by Uradel at 8:18 am on Jan. 14, 2009 No man OR woman in their right mind would be like that!  People need "alone time," "time with their buddies," "time with their hobbies," etc.  Aim for hanging out most days, but not everyday. All that stuff you said sounds too mushy and lubby dubby.  I hope you don't take what I said the wrong way. -- Posted by strandedgirli at 8:18 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from sammiroo at 8:17 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Maybe in the beginning of your relationship he would, but eventually things would die down. yeah, definetly, or in calii's case he'd turn out to be gay but sooner or later he'll get tired of kissing your ass and figure out you're not worth it. -- Posted by My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:20 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:17 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009 I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys haha...and I still don't see why everybody is crazy about his looks or whatever..ew it's not his looks that has raised girls expectations of wierd -- Posted by Uradel at 8:21 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from Rastafarian at 8:13 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Sure if you'll suck their cock at the drop of a hat, I'm sure many would do it. Rescind what I said in my previous post.  If you do the above statement, your bf should do anything for you!  On the other hand, isn't that degrading?   Just let the relationship flow in a chill manner, i.e. Listen to what I said in my prior post. -- Posted by dare4u1on1 at 8:25 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:10 am on Jan. 14, 2009 okay so i want my bf to always say im beautiful , open doors for me always want to hangout with me everyday , always want to talk to me and be there for me and always pay attention to me and do whatever makes me happy and always tell mehe loves me, of course it would go both ways but is that too much.. a bit time APART, is actually healthy for relationships -- Posted by Lulu Nobody at 8:30 am on Jan. 14, 2009 The more you expect it the more your boyfriend is going to not want to do it, he'll be making himself do it. Stop putting expectations on people and appreciate it when they do something for you because they want to. -- Posted by Chiefette at 9:14 am on Jan. 14, 2009 My husband does that for me, but he is a rare find, and it works both ways. -- Posted by amber1991 at 11:47 am on Jan. 14, 2009 Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009 I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys Hey...even though I've read the whole saga doesn't mean that I'm about to want a guy that is like Edward Cullen. I stick to reality, always have. Also to the person that made the topic...that's asking just a bit too much. -- Posted by gore at 10:53 pm on Jan. 14, 2009 a lot of guys are like that -- Posted by bobbydigital at 11:41 pm on Jan. 14, 2009 no its perfectly normal to expect a slave to do those things wait you said boyfriend? oh... -- Posted by CountryChick5 at 11:53 pm on Jan. 14, 2009 Its okay to want this but don't always expect it, I am pretty laid back but I do get frustrated when my bf can't spend time with me sitting down and cuddling as he can't sit still for too long but I love him and wouldn't change that for the world but I wish that he would spend more time with me and not be flirting with my best friend. -- Posted by LoveKay at 12:01 am on Jan. 15, 2009 It depends on how long you two have been together for. It is too much to ask for and you are moving too fast if you haven't been together for long, like a couple of months or less. Your boyfriend should always compliment you, but he should not be obligated to spit out "I love you"s all the time or at all until he feels it. You want him to truly feel love, don't you? Not just say it without meaning it, right?