-- Posted by gotyooadicted at 8:55 pm on May 27, 2009 I feel like I try to pretend to be happy to keep up with my social life. I'm probably insecure with myself and I try to cover that up by hanging out with people who are social. It's not that I have a lot of friends at all but my best friend and roommate is pretty popular. ughh, i want to become comfortable with myself -- Posted by johnny d at 8:56 pm on May 27, 2009 Grag McDouche can help u with that -- Posted by RIMHfire at 8:57 pm on May 27, 2009 Quote: from johnny d at 11:56 pm on May 27, 2009 Grag McDouche can help u with that I'd like to meet him. -- Posted by Skip at 8:57 pm on May 27, 2009 sometimes u just have to realize that who u are is not as much of a sociable person as these other people who are presumably extroverts thats not to say you cant be a social person, just that you will have a harder time doing it if you try -- Posted by gotyooadicted at 9:00 pm on May 27, 2009 Quote: from Skip at 11:57 pm on May 27, 2009 sometimes u just have to realize that who u are is not as much of a sociable person as these other people who are presumably extroverts thats not to say you cant be a social person, just that you will have a harder time doing it if you try Thanksss Skip, I should have realized this by now lol .. I'l! try! -- Posted by tearful at 4:45 pm on June 28, 2009 trust me, i've been pretending for many years, i feel ya, pretending gets so tiring :-/ you should try to find som friends that have things in common with you, that way you ont feel like you have to keep up to be as peppy as your roomates are. i guess we just dont have it in ourselves to be as happy as them, we all have different personalities, but i bet you have other great things about your personality. being happy isnt the only good personality trait there is, that goes for myself as well. -- Posted by bigajosep at 11:32 pm on July 13, 2009 only priks will care if ur happy. unfortunatly theres a lot of girl priks. hang out with guys. we betta