-- Posted by HollywoodTrashley at 12:07 am on June 9, 2009 I'm glad I was in love when I did it. I'm glad I waited. It would have been awful, just awful if I wasn't. But I was and it was magical, heavenly...I did it to bring us closer together, and it seems to have worked. Don't do it on the first or second date either. You can't possibly know a person well enough. I waited four months. -- Posted by Pendulum at 12:07 am on June 9, 2009 How on earth do you know it would have been horrible? -- Posted by DannyBoi at 12:08 am on June 9, 2009 I'm happy for you! And I'll take your advice to heart. -- Posted by HollywoodTrashley at 12:08 am on June 9, 2009 Quote: from Pendulum at 12:07 am on June 9, 2009 How on earth do you know it would have been horrible?   I wouldn't have felt anything but mechanical had I not been in love. And I only did it because I loved him, I wanted to give him a special thing when I did it with him. -- Posted by hi sarah at 12:08 am on June 9, 2009 Erm why would it have been awful? -- Posted by Pendulum at 12:12 am on June 9, 2009 Quote: from HollywoodTrashley at 8:08 am on June 9, 2009 Quote: from Pendulum at 12:07 am on June 9, 2009 How on earth do you know it would have been horrible? I wouldn't have felt anything but mechanical had I not been in love. And I only did it because I loved him, I wanted to give him a special thing when I did it with him. You don't know that. -- Posted by TechnoShark at 12:14 am on June 9, 2009 I waited 8.5 months. He dumped me a month later. -- Posted by ssminow at 12:15 am on June 9, 2009 yay!  :] I'm happy for you!   i regret not waiting everyday -- Posted by Natsy at 12:16 am on June 9, 2009 What do you want, a medal? Do what YOU want, but don't preach. SOME of us, naming no names (but me) won't fall in love. -- Posted by Ju5tin at 12:16 am on June 9, 2009 stop shoving shit down our throats >_< -- Posted by See Me Now at 12:17 am on June 9, 2009 Sex isn't magical... love isn't magical either. You're deluded. -- Posted by Spice at 12:26 am on June 9, 2009 2guys I fucked I didn't love. The sex was better. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 12:34 am on June 9, 2009 Fuck that, I'm waiting for marriage. love>marriage>sex I have to make sure they are worthy -- Posted by JennyColada at 9:36 am on June 9, 2009 I have casual sex on the first date pretty awesome, and that works for me. Different people have different views about sex and about what scenarios make sex "the best". We all need to do what we enjoy and make the choices that we think are right. For me, that involves having sex in AND out of "love". -- Posted by Capt Kuchiki Byakuya at 1:15 pm on June 10, 2009 I think that's good that other people don't just jump in the bed. I have my own 3 month rule. I think people should get to know the person, and not just do it for fun. That's how the S.T.D's are raising. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:40 pm on June 10, 2009 I agree. I had sex with someone whom I didn't love, and I don't regret it, pers ay, but I wish it had been another person. I shall now wait for love. -- Posted by vde at 12:26 am on June 14, 2009 mmm good advice......got anything else cuz for this we decide -- Posted by aeternus at 5:42 pm on June 20, 2009 I'm glad I was in love my first time, but I see no problem with getting some strange for fun. As long as you use protection, it's not like you're hurting anyone, and it still feels good. -- Posted by child of rock n roll at 11:05 pm on July 2, 2009 I agree. I also waited 4 months -- Posted by sesso at 3:07 am on July 6, 2009 I knew the guy for several years before we went out, and more than a year before we lost our virginities to eachother. Even then now looking back it was a little bit too soon, but I don't regret it. It wasn't "magical" nor did it ever become magical afterwards.. But we stayed together for another 2 nearly 3 more years. I hope to find some "magic" in the future. -- Posted by StilettoGirl at 2:39 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 12:17 am on June 9, 2009 Sex isn't magical... love isn't magical either. You're deluded. Love is magical for me...not sex.  Sex is awesome, but not magical.  I can't say I was IN love when I had sex but it was with someone I had loving feelings for.  I'm glad I had it with him and waited 6 months but now I dont give a crap!  I can have sex, mutual sex, with someone I don't have strong feelings for.  If he's hot and a nice guy, damn I'm there.