-- Posted by ameri mexi at 11:07 pm on June 13, 2009 to date someone who has a kid already?? -- Posted by ToyJetpack at 11:08 pm on June 13, 2009 if you want to go through hell, yes. -- Posted by Stigmatophilia at 11:08 pm on June 13, 2009 Unless you wanna fuck up your life like they fucked up theirs. -- Posted by See Me Now at 11:08 pm on June 13, 2009 Why not? -- Posted by ralovic at 11:08 pm on June 13, 2009 i guess sometimes it can be, and sometimes it can't. -- Posted by Lily Rose at 11:08 pm on June 13, 2009 It isn't a bad idea -- Posted by The Falc0n at 11:09 pm on June 13, 2009 It's fine for you and for the man you're involved with. However, you need to take the child into consideration. If things end sourly for you two, then the child will suffer the loss of you in his/her life. Also, the mother of the child may not be too fond of you, thus causing a lot of unnecessary drama. Follow your heart, but don't be stupid. -- Posted by Serj Tankian at 11:10 pm on June 13, 2009 It should be fine if you like kids and can deal with them. -- Posted by Areola at 11:10 pm on June 13, 2009 I would never. But there's nothing "Wrong" with it, per say. -- Posted by Clara Bell at 11:13 pm on June 13, 2009 A general rule is, if there's drama around this person on the reg, avoid them. Cause them having a kid adds to it, and just makes your life an uneccessary hell. But if they are someone who is responsible and mature and not a drama queen/king, then I don't see the problem. -- Posted by veronica22 at 11:25 pm on June 13, 2009 i dont see why not