-- Posted by penumbra at 1:03 am on June 30, 2009 Its literally ruining my life. I cant get over my ex, but its because she doesnt want to be with me. If she said to me tomorrow "i want to be with you" i wouldnt even want to- just knowing she wanted me would be enough. But since she doesnt want me i think i have feelings of worthlessness and low self esteem. Im basing my entire life on this girl not wanting me. Im letting it destroy me. I need serious help and advice on how to overcome this. Thank you. -- Posted by blackbandaid at 1:04 am on June 30, 2009 Everyone has a big problem with rejection. It hurts. -- Posted by aejae at 1:04 am on June 30, 2009 I do too -- Posted by xcutioners at 8:52 am on June 30, 2009 I'm in the same boat.... -- Posted by aidensmommy21 at 6:00 am on July 2, 2009 Everyone is scared of rejection -- Posted by justaguy89 at 7:12 pm on July 2, 2009 im on the same boat ride as you. im at disney world right now and i really havnt enjoyed myself much. i try  such  mean i have a good time its just the thouhtis runnng through my mind at all times and im almot never in a good mood. the only time i am is when im by myself. whati have been doing with my time for the past 6 months of my breakup has been based on a routein of going to work. work out. sit at home and play online video games.. whic isnt good. well the video games part... it really sux...