Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by HollywoodTrashley at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 for not having sex with him (except once) after 6 months. i am 23 and he is 29. i don't want to because we are not married. he might knock me up and dump me. -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 You're stupid -- Posted by Mwitzy20 at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 hes a tool -- Posted by DuBBy at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 1:54 pm on July 2, 2009 You're stupid lols -- Posted by Thriftweed at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 yeah i have no idea what you think you are doing -- Posted by danndivision at 11:55 am on July 2, 2009 just suck his dick and make him happy -- Posted by Thriftweed at 11:55 am on July 2, 2009 except once lol. wear condoms. -- Posted by kindredragon at 11:55 am on July 2, 2009 good for you you can find better -- Posted by Violently Happy at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from danndivision at 2:55 pm on July 2, 2009 just suck his dick and make him happy -- Posted by Kaijuu at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009 Wait for marriage. you're not ridiculous. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 You're stupid Says the whore. -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009 If that's all the trust you have for him don't have sex with him (or be with him) -- Posted by OnYourMind at 11:57 am on July 2, 2009 thats pretty smart and you have good control. good job -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 11:57 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:56 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:54 am on July 2, 2009 You're stupid Says the whore. Yes -- Posted by annacuteface at 11:57 am on July 2, 2009 Don't Have worries of a 15 Year old -- Posted by foxyvix16 at 11:57 am on July 2, 2009 Quote: from kindredragon at 11:55 am on July 2, 2009 good for you you can find better -- Posted by Googoie at 11:58 am on July 2, 2009 You are not at fault here. -- Posted by hishebrewbabe at 11:58 am on July 2, 2009 good for you. -- Posted by Micus at 11:58 am on July 2, 2009 He's nearly 30. Men are sexual beings and if you don't want sex and he does it's nothing that you can hold against each other but know that it is putting a huge strain on him to have been with you for so long. I had this problem with my last boyfriend.. we had been dating for nearly two months before we had sex. By the end of the two months I was convinced I was never gonna get to have sex with him, and it made me really sad. Not necessarily to "fuck" him, but I'm sure he likes you quite a bit. Six months is a long time! He's probably really close and, like me, wanted to go that next step in being with you. Honestly two months was the longest I was willing to wait for someone. If sex isn't going to be some facet of the relationship SOME point down the line, to me it isn't really worth it. Do you really think that it is in his character to just knock you up and dump you? If you protect yourself properly there's nearly no way you'll get pregnant. -- Posted by BeautifulGirl15 at 11:59 am on July 2, 2009 Use a condom. & you're not rediculous. -- Posted by mskennybaby at 11:59 am on July 2, 2009 he sounds like a tool he should understand but if anything just give him a blow job he'll deal -- Posted by Magneto at 12:01 pm on July 2, 2009 Is he 29? -- Posted by Sexican at 12:01 pm on July 2, 2009 Well i can kinda see his point mainly because im kind of in the same situation. The way we see it is that we've been with you all this time, and to cut us off like that is pretty insensitive. We're men with needs, but we still stick around because we love our gfs. You gotta cut us some slack, and im pretty sure ill get alot of hate quotes now too -- Posted by BrittBee at 12:04 pm on July 2, 2009 You're not ridiculous, you have a right to want to wait until marraige. But being that HE is almost 30, sex is like a basic need pretty much. He thinks you're ridiculous because he doesn't care about sex before marraige. If he's been with you for 6 months though, he won't just dump you because you put out for him. He would have given up a long time ago. If you're only holding off because you're worried about getting pregnant, then get on the pill, use condoms, AND have him pull out still. But if it really means something to you to hold off then don't do it. Don't be surprised though if he dumps you because you WON'T have sex with him. -- Posted by sai at 12:07 pm on July 2, 2009 Just like how some people view sex as being something of a necessity in a relationship, some people don't - like you. What you could do is explain how you feel about sex to him and well, if he disagrees with your point of view, I don't think there's much you can do except break up with him and find someone who has the same perspective as you. -- Posted by imSOFAKINGrad at 12:09 pm on July 2, 2009 i think you're over reacting about sex. -- Posted by FurryCupcake at 4:34 pm on July 2, 2009 I think if that's what you're worried about and the ONLY thing stopping you, you could get some condoms and get on the pill or some other form of birth control. I wouldn't have sex with my boyfriend without being on something either. I wouldn't even do just a condom, I just don't want to risk it. But if you don't want to deal with it just yet, that's your right and your call. -- Posted by I never forget at 5:49 pm on July 2, 2009 Well I reccomend that you as a 23 year old stop asking teens to solve your problems, be a big girl and put out. -- Posted by tell me again at 5:54 pm on July 2, 2009 Rofl except once. YOU RUINED IT! -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Men are sexual beings Men can control themselves, just as much as women. Sex is a two way street. If one doesn't want to fuck/make love/have sex, then there's not going to be a fucking/love making/sexing. You have to wait until your partner is ready. And if you're not willing to wait, then it's not worth waiting for via the other partner. Honestly two months was the longest I was willing to wait for someone. If sex isn't going to be some facet of the relationship SOME point down the line, to me it isn't really worth it. Two months? Good lord. That's a bit sickening. To me. We're men with needs Wants, love. Sex is not a need. sex is like a basic need pretty much God, I hate stupid teenagers with hormones. Pages: 1 2  Next