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-- Posted by visualcandyxo at 12:11 pm on July 2, 2009 not to sink back into the old routine of cutting to get over stuff =/ basically, i went through a tough time where i was really snappy at everyone, and now pretty much everyone thinks I'm a bitch. i mean, everyone goes through tough time, right? what ever happened to forgive and forget?? so yeah.. i dunno how much longer i can hold out for =/
-- Posted by DuBBy at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better
-- Posted by brittany101 at 12:13 pm on July 2, 2009 me too dont worry sweetie i know exactly where your comming from....if you need help or want to talk...PM me
-- Posted by hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009
shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting.
-- Posted by The Last Magister at 12:16 pm on July 2, 2009 Something I realized quickly is that while people do forgive and forget, it often takes time. You need to prove to them with your actions, not just for a little while, but over a long course of time that you've changed for the better. I know it sucks, and it took me two years to show people I had changed who I was, but that doesn't mean in any way that you should give up on fixing things. As people have said in this topic already, things CAN and WILL get better if you just hold on. Please don't cut yourself, no one wants you to do this. Things will get better as long as you keep trying.
-- Posted by Lucid Nightmare at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009
Uh, actually, things always get better. Sometimes it's just not in the way you expect.
-- Posted by hishebrewbabe at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009
thats not entirely true, some broken hearts never heal, some fights are never resolved, and some losses are never forgotton. So dont try to tell me everything gets better.
-- Posted by Lucid Nightmare at 12:41 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009
No. Things ALWAYS get better. Even if you do lose a friend or two in the process, everything happens for a reason. You'll end up happy sooner or later.
-- Posted by hishebrewbabe at 12:45 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:41 pm on July 2, 2009
hm, ive lost a friend, a love, a father, a grandfather, a sister for a reason? please explain why?
-- Posted by mbs55 at 1:16 pm on July 2, 2009 Cutting is never the answer. What's going in your life? How are your relationships with your family members? There is also never a reason to blame yourself. That's exactly what you don't want to do. Whenever you're thinking of cutting, try to think of all of the positive things in your life and how you have your whole life ahead of you. Things don't always have to be bad, and more often than not, your circumstances will change for the better. If you want to talk about it, feel free to PM me.
-- Posted by Lucid Nightmare at 4:37 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:45 pm on July 2, 2009
Obviously I can't figure that out for you. But seriously, there is hope. There's always hope.
-- Posted by newmie66 at 6:14 pm on July 2, 2009 I was anorexic for two years and during that time I struggled to be nice to anyone. I know exactly how you feel and basically as I recovered, time seemed to mend my relationships with people. I'd be happy to talk to you anytime if you just need someone to listen. Feel free to PM me!
-- Posted by etf1249 at 11:22 am on July 10, 2009 Don't You Have To Apologise To Be Forgiven?
-- Posted by Ken01 at 9:33 pm on July 12, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009
There will be battles but not everything is so overcomplicated in this world. Some wounds just need time and patience. And to the original poster, just stay strong and hold out as things will get better, you'll get no where if you give up. I, as most everyone else, am here if you need to talk. :) Feel better.
-- Posted by twisted angel at 12:46 am on July 13, 2009
Heyy hang in there life can be tough, when i was in year 7 my whole group turned against me becuase one girl made up stuff about me and everyone in the group hated me and it all happened in one day and i had no idea why. I didnt even do anything, i am not saying i am an angel or anything. But about a month later they kept on being a bitch to me but i found a great group of friends that i stayed with for a year, then progressed onto annother group wich i am currently in now but my two best friends from my high school are in the group that i moved to after those girls started being total stuck up bitches to me. Now some of them are apologising to me and say how sorry they are and be nice to me, but i will never trust them again. So just hang in there, from my experience and some of my friends experiences everyone comes around. People find out who you are in time, and you will find great friends when everything seems like shit and there is knowbody to turn to, a nice group or someone will come up out of the blue. Just give it some time, dont go back to cutting and being snappy becuase you can already see what it did to your life and you dont want to go back there after you have gotten this far.
-- Posted by bigajosep at 11:12 pm on July 13, 2009 do something before u go back to cutting. change your lifestyle in someway, and if that doesnt work, change it in another. for example, never go home if home is where u cut
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You can hang in there! Everthing gets better