-- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 6:21 pm on July 2, 2009 He confessed his love to me, I denied him, and now he's no longer my best friend. It's wonderful. Really. It makes me feel fucking fantastic. -- Posted by BeautifulGirl15 at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Awe... Did you tell him that you still just wanted to be friends? -- Posted by Kaijuu at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 well accept him into your heart and apologize -- Posted by Zaxter at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 I'm sorry -- Posted by eklipse at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 You did the right thing in not leading him on and giving him false hope. I don't really see why you can't be friends with him still.... -- Posted by 420mike at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Ouch.... I kinda did that to a girl who was my best friend :/ and she denied me and I felt like a douche bag so stopped talking to her.   -- Posted by blitzerdog at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 I did that in a scene study. It pains on the inside. -- Posted by Lally at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Thats what sucks about best friends in a relationship. your friendships isnt as strong or its gone entirely if you guys dont end up together. -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:22 pm on July 2, 2009 well accept him into your heart and apologize ... Okay, God. He's my best friend. He's nearly a brother. I'm not going to date him. -- Posted by hahahahastupid at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 aww that's sad. did you explain to him how you feel? -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 6:23 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from BeautifulGirl15 at 9:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Awe... Did you tell him that you still just wanted to be friends? Of course. Even he admitted that he didn't want his feelings to get in the way of our friendship. And apparently they did. -- Posted by Chasey at 6:23 pm on July 2, 2009 =( oh no -- Posted by 420mike at 6:24 pm on July 2, 2009 She kinda lead me on big time though.... Telling me she loved me all the time and missed me.  Asked me to sleep with her after she got depressed and cut herself (not sex)...... I was FUCKING IN LOVE with this girl.  God even 5 months later I think about her every day :( I know exactly how your friend feels.... That was the worst pain i've ever felt. -- Posted by andrethebest1 at 6:28 pm on July 2, 2009 im sorry -- Posted by ElectricLadyFlash at 6:29 pm on July 2, 2009 He's most likely in shock..frankly, I don't see why a friendship should end if it can't turn into something more, but love makes you do crazy, sometimes stupid, things.. :\ Give him awhile to himself. :3 -- Posted by wave25 at 6:31 pm on July 2, 2009 ... -- Posted by ElectricLadyFlash at 6:34 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 6:31 pm on July 2, 2009 wow you're a bitch Uh, how? She sees him as a brother. She's a bitch for that? She's a good person if she fakes their love and just leads him on? Are you serious? The truth will set you free. -- Posted by SpRiNgS at 6:45 pm on July 2, 2009 i've been on both ends of that situation the receiver and the giver I feel like when i say that and when i'm on the end of it -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 6:48 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from ElectricLadyflash at 9:34 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 6:31 pm on July 2, 2009 wow you're a bitch Uh, how? She sees him as a brother. She's a bitch for that? She's a good person if she fakes their love and just leads him on? Are you serious? The truth will set you free. Thank you Electricladyflash. =] -- Posted by SpRiNgS at 6:53 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from SpRiNgS at 6:45 pm on July 2, 2009 i've been on both ends of that situation the receiver and the giver I feel like when i say that and when i'm on the end of it but time heals all wounds or SHOULD -- Posted by Kaijuu at 7:53 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from xoAllixs0n at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:22 pm on July 2, 2009 well accept him    into your heart    and apologize ...   Okay, God. He's my best friend. He's nearly a brother. I'm not going to date him. Either get over it and accept him or get over it and accept that he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. either way, get over it. -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 7:56 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 10:53 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from xoAllixs0n at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:22 pm on July 2, 2009 well accept him   into your heart   and apologize    ...  Okay, God. He's my best friend. He's nearly a brother. I'm not going to date him. Either get over it and accept him or get over it and accept that he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. either way, get over it. ... I"m pretty sure I'm allowed to post about anything I want (within reason, of course) on this forum. "Get over it," isn't very supportive. Don't you think? -- Posted by wave25 at 8:06 pm on July 2, 2009 ... -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 8:10 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 11:06 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from ElectricLadyflash at 6:34 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 6:31 pm on July 2, 2009 wow you're a bitch    Uh, how? She sees him as a brother. She's a bitch for that? She's a good person if she fakes their love and just leads him on? Are you serious?    The truth will set you free. to say she feels fucking fantastic over breaking this poor guy's heart is pretty bitchy to me. i understand her situation that it'd be awkward to date him and all but i'd still feel bad about rejecting him if he was so sincere You're an idiot. "I feel fucking fantastic," is sarcasm. Tool bag. -- Posted by wave25 at 1:11 am on July 3, 2009 ... -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 1:13 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 4:11 am on July 3, 2009 bitchy sarcasm lol No. Pissed off sarcasm that was coupled with a serious eye roll. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 7:44 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from xoAllixs0n at 7:56 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 10:53 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from xoAllixs0n at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:22 pm on July 2, 2009 well accept him       into your heart       and apologize   ...       Okay, God. He's my best friend. He's nearly a brother. I'm not going to date him.    Either get over it and accept him or get over it and accept that he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. either way, get over it. ...   I"m pretty sure I'm allowed to post about anything I want (within reason, of course) on this forum. "Get over it," isn't very supportive. Don't you think? If she won't go out with him theres nothing she can do. She should just get over it if she wont date him. I'm not going to support her after she hurt his feelings. -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 11:37 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 10:44 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from xoAllixs0n at 7:56 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 10:53 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from xoAllixs0n at 6:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 9:22 pm on July 2, 2009 well accept him    into your heart    and apologize       ...   Okay, God. He's my best friend. He's nearly a brother. I'm not going to date him.   Either get over it and accept him or get over it and accept that he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. either way, get over it.    ...  I"m pretty sure I'm allowed to post about anything I want (within reason, of course) on this forum. "Get over it," isn't very supportive. Don't you think? If she won't go out with him theres nothing she can do.   She should just get over it if she wont date him. I'm not going to support her after she hurt his feelings. Why are you saying "she?" We're talking about me. I'm aware there's nothing I can do. This entire thread was merely for venting purposes. Try to be a little more sensitive here. I didn't want to hurt his feelings, as he is my best friend, but I will certainly not engage in a relationship with him in which I feel no feelings and/or sexual and physical attraction. That would be a terrible thing to do, as I would only have to break up with him and hurt his feelings even more. -- Posted by ElectricLadyFlash at 1:05 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 8:06 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from ElectricLadyflash at 6:34 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from wave25 at 6:31 pm on July 2, 2009 wow you're a bitch    Uh, how? She sees him as a brother. She's a bitch for that? She's a good person if she fakes their love and just leads him on? Are you serious?    The truth will set you free. to say she feels fucking fantastic over breaking this poor guy's heart is pretty bitchy to me. i understand her situation that it'd be awkward to date him and all but i'd still feel bad about rejecting him if he was so sincere You took that seriously? It was pretty obvious she was being sarcastic. She wasn't complaining about him like she hated him, so why do you think she honestly felt fantastic over losing a BEST friend whom she saw as her brother? They were that close, and you think she's enjoying losing her friend?