-- Posted by BranMan at 10:37 pm on July 2, 2009 ok im not sure whether to let my friend find out by herself or if i should keep trying... today my friends ex told me that he was just using her to have sex... and hes cheated on her 3 times! ive tried telling her that she shouldnt go back to him because hes using her (and the 3 times cheating) but she didnt believe me and she went back to him! idk what to do? -- Posted by JackieisBlue at 10:38 pm on July 2, 2009 Tell her. She deserves to know. -- Posted by iswat at 10:42 pm on July 2, 2009 let her know by her self.