-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:18 am on July 3, 2009 ok so tomorrow's the 4th of july and my friend is having this cookout/sleepover thing. I really want to go to it but I am pretty sure my mom won't let me if I ask. She hates my friend and will probably just assume its a way for me to  go get fucked up and not have to come home. How can I convince her to let me go. Please help. -- Posted by GoliathJustin at 11:19 am on July 3, 2009 Tomorrows my birthday ^_^ stay home. -- Posted by Descartes at 11:19 am on July 3, 2009 Just tell her your going to a different friends bbq. -- Posted by xquackxattackx at 11:20 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Descartes at 11:19 am on July 3, 2009 Just tell her your going to a different friends bbq. exactly, i do this all the time. works like a charm -- Posted by aejae at 11:20 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Descartes at 11:19 am on July 3, 2009 Just tell her your going to a different friends bbq. this -- Posted by Manipulative Acid at 11:20 am on July 3, 2009 Just ask her first, and see what she says. If she hardly lets you out, then say this is the one and only time you'll go (it obviously wont be). I mean, she has to let you sometime right? And if not, then ACT RESPONSIBLY. You know, theres a reason why she might not be wanting to let you go out, you might be getting fucked up easily, so don't. -- Posted by soccerislife at 11:20 am on July 3, 2009 don't lie.. it;; come back to bite you in the ass. -- Posted by TaintedReflection09 at 11:22 am on July 3, 2009 My advice,, Whatever you do, don't lie about where you are. I recently did that and it bit me on the ass and wasnt worth it. Just ask, she might say yes and if she does say no, maybe she has valid reasons that shes choosing not to share with you. -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:23 am on July 3, 2009 well i cant really lie cause i need my friend to come pick me up and my mom knows her car -- Posted by dirty paws at 12:45 pm on July 3, 2009 just asked and promise you wont get f-ed up. and don't