-- Posted by belizabeth at 2:18 pm on July 3, 2009 A few days ago I sent this message to my bf and he has yet to reply. Is that bad? what is up? why can you not talk to me? are we over? I would like to know. I did nothing so what is your problem. I love you but it does not seem like you love me anymore. I can not take this anymore. I need to know. I need to make my decision after I find out if we are still together or not. If not then I do not know what I will do but it will not be good I can promise you that. There will be no way for any one to stop me. Everyone hates me. There will be no reason for me to live. If you do not believe me then fine. Just be that way. -- Posted by aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know. -- Posted by picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 kind of sort of... yeah. that's just what i think. maybe in stead of bombing his in box with questions like this... you could have either talked face to face to see what's up.. or texted him (unless you don't have his number) -- Posted by See Me Now at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Uhm... you sound like a manipulative bitch. I wouldn't have written back either.... geeeez. -- Posted by picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know. what do you need to know? -- Posted by JackieisBlue at 2:22 pm on July 3, 2009 Don't EVER threaten to kill yourself if they don't stay with you. That is a stupid and cowardely thing to do. You have no right to try and guilt someone into a relationship. If he is being an asshole, leave him. But don't try to put your life in his hands, because if you kill yourself, that is YOUR problem, not his. -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:25 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it    how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know. what do you need to know? weather me and him are still together or not. -- Posted by Muddbutt at 2:28 pm on July 3, 2009 maybe you should ease off a little. -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:28 pm on July 3, 2009 maybe you should ease off a little. why? -- Posted by picklez118 at 2:32 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:25 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it   how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know.    what do you need to know? weather me and him are still together or not. ahh okay. you should have met him face to face. no offense.. but if I got a message like that, I wouldn't want to respond either. -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:33 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:32 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:25 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it       how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know.   what do you need to know?    weather me and him are still together or not. ahh okay. you should have met him face to face. no offense.. but if I got a message like that, I wouldn't want to respond either. there is no way I can see him. My mom will not let me and that is a huge reason I sent that message. -- Posted by Muddbutt at 2:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 2:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:28 pm on July 3, 2009 maybe you should ease off a little. why? why not? -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 2:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:28 pm on July 3, 2009 maybe you should ease off a little.    why? why not? because I need to know and this is the only way for me to find out. -- Posted by picklez118 at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:33 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:32 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:25 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it    how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know.       what do you need to know?   weather me and him are still together or not.    ahh okay. you should have met him face to face. no offense.. but if I got a message like that, I wouldn't want to respond either. there is no way I can see him. My mom will not let me and that is a huge reason I sent that message. you have to find a way to. like hwen your mom works.. or say your going to the mall with some friends.. actually go to the mall and meet him there and talk. -- Posted by Muddbutt at 2:37 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 2:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:28 pm on July 3, 2009 maybe you should ease off a little.   why?    why not? because I need to know and this is the only way for me to find out. well if he doesnt reply then you've got your answer & end it. -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:37 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:33 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:32 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:25 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from picklez118 at 2:21 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:20 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from aejae at 2:19 pm on July 3, 2009 you shouldn't have been mean about it           how was I mean. I tried to be nice before and still I got no reply from him. I just need to know.    what do you need to know?       weather me and him are still together or not.   ahh okay. you should have met him face to face. no offense.. but if I got a message like that, I wouldn't want to respond either.    there is no way I can see him. My mom will not let me and that is a huge reason I sent that message. you have to find a way to. like hwen your mom works.. or say your going to the mall with some friends.. actually go to the mall and meet him there and talk. I am not allowed to go no where without my mom being there and my mom does not work. She will not let me see him. -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:38 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:37 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 2:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Muddbutt at 2:28 pm on July 3, 2009 maybe you should ease off a little.       why?   why not?    because I need to know and this is the only way for me to find out. well if he doesnt reply then you've got your answer & end it. ok.... -- Posted by visualcandyxo at 2:39 pm on July 3, 2009 i dont think using guilt is going to get him to talk. i speak from being on the recieving end of something like this.. its not fun and it wont work =/ -- Posted by belizabeth at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from visualcandyxo at 2:39 pm on July 3, 2009 i dont think using guilt is going to get him to talk. i speak from being on the recieving end of something like this.. its not fun and it wont work =/ I know that but there is nothing else I can do.