-- Posted by Pika Pie at 7:33 pm on July 3, 2009 Okay my best friend recently has turned into a complete....well...... read the rest and you'll no. I love her shes been there for me threw alot of things but just over this summer she has been with (had sex with) 4 guys that none of them she was dating....all around the same time...I just want my old best friend back. I just don't get why shes doing this. Its not like her. I just want to talk to her somehow and ask her why she decided to do those things. And now that she has she is telling me how I shouldn't wait until marraige and she knows I strongly believe in waiting. I just want my old freind back. -- Posted by aejae at 7:36 pm on July 3, 2009 have a long conversation with her that won't ruin your friendship -- Posted by farmer5123 at 7:36 pm on July 3, 2009 People change, it sucks. -- Posted by SoaringFalcon2010 at 7:39 pm on July 3, 2009 Your friend is probably just going through a stage. I had a friend who acted just like that when we were going into freshman year. Normally people get over it, sometimes they don't. You just have to remember people change.,,,and there's really not much you can do about it. Try talking to your friend about it, tell her about how you miss the old her and want her back. As for her saying you shouldn't wait, if you really are set on waiting then wait. There is no shame in saving your first time for someone truly special and who deserves it. I actually think you are quiet smart for wanting to wait:). Don't let people talk you out of it. PM me if you want to talk