-- Posted by Agirl18 at 9:31 pm on July 3, 2009 My sister is 16 and she is trying to datethis guy who is almost 25. She wants me to keep it quiet but i really disapprove of this shit cause he is like too old and only 11 years younger than my own mother and he has nothing to offer but a stupid car. I dont wanna seem like some hating ass snitch, but i think my mother should know, but then again i wanna be neutral -- Posted by alli wonderland at 9:32 pm on July 3, 2009 let her live her life.Don't get involved. -- Posted by gloomygurl at 9:33 pm on July 3, 2009 if shes sneaking around with him yeah tell her until then keep quiet -- Posted by starularcircles at 9:33 pm on July 3, 2009 when my sister did that to me, i stopped talking to her... but my boy is only 4 and a half years older. try talking to her, tell her he's probably just using her for sex. tell her that your concerned. -- Posted by RubberTrees at 9:33 pm on July 3, 2009 Edit; lol, I are stoopid - read wrong. Have you tried talking to her about it? -- Posted by Poker Shark at 9:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Don't do it. She'll hate you and 16 isn't that young anyway. -- Posted by starularcircles at 9:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from RubberTrees at 11:33 pm on July 3, 2009 11 years younger than your mother? You mother is 14? So... she had your sister 2 years before she herself was born? What? learn to do math. the guy is 25, which is 11 yrs younger than mom. mom must be 36. had the mentioned sister when she was 20.   -- Posted by Agirl18 at 9:34 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from RubberTrees at 9:33 pm on July 3, 2009 Edit; lol, I are stoopid - read wrong. Have you tried talking to her about it. no this guy is 25 and my mother is 36, this dude is 11 years younger than my mom. and yes my mom was a teen mother. -- Posted by RubberTrees at 9:38 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from starularcircles at 12:34 am on July 4, 2009 learn to do math. the guy is 25, which is 11 yrs younger than mom. mom must be 36. had the mentioned sister when she was 20. I obviously spotted the mistake as is clear from my edit.  No need to comment.  TYVM.   -- Posted by RubberTrees at 9:40 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Agirl18 at 12:34 am on July 4, 2009 no this guy is 25 and my mother is 36, this dude is 11 years younger than my mom. and yes my mom was a teen mother. Yes, I spotted the mistake.   Again, have you tried talking to her about it?  You cannot really do much, as it is her life.  She would absolutely hate you if you told your mother, and will possibly even try sneaking out to meet said guy.   All you can really do it make sure she's safe and that if she's having sex, that she uses protection.  However, try convincing her to tell your mother.  I wouldn't exactly trust a man that old going out with someone so young.  :/