-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:04 pm on July 3, 2009 Like how a kid can start out so average and energetic, then find someone and become so ecstatic and romantic, thinking what they have will last forever, then having it taken away and feeling completely worthless and alone, then ending a jaded and bitter person who loves to irritate people just because they are still wounded deep down but they have people in their life they can't admit it to, yet everyone always wonders why that person changed so drastically from that kid who was so happy in love to that sardonic bastard who seems to love to torment everyone and everything. -- Posted by thisisrlywierd at 10:07 pm on July 3, 2009 sooo whyd you change then? -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:10 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from thisisrlywierd at 12:07 am on July 4, 2009 sooo whyd you change then? Because after losing someone I'd cared more about than I'd even thought I was capable of, and losing them so suddenly and inexplicably broke my heart, and in general I just have no faith in people with the exception of a very small portion of them. I realized that no matter how much energy you put into something, you can't control life, so there's no point in really trying to get attached except for the few people you need to keep you going. -- Posted by looktothelight at 10:16 pm on July 3, 2009 vulnerability is beautiful. its a fact: why regret something that made you smile? totally give yourself to a person, to be 100% happy. even if it ends in hurt. at least you made the most of it. -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:18 pm on July 3, 2009 I am vulnerable to the people I need and that is it. Everyone else is just adding to the risks. -- Posted by TheBluecoat at 10:26 pm on July 3, 2009 You live, you love, you get hurt, then you grow a pair and get over it. C'est la vie. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 12:36 am on July 4, 2009 Love has such an amazing hold on us all. It can be one of the best feelings in the world. -- Posted by yesterdays love at 1:53 am on July 4, 2009 i know exactly how you feel =/ unfortunately. -- Posted by tell me again at 4:40 am on July 4, 2009 But it's not about what you need. Someone's supposed to prove worth the risk n all -- Posted by SpartanElite at 3:10 pm on July 4, 2009 love isnt everything...but its the most important thing. Dont forget that. Attaching yourself to someone because of love isnt a bad thing