-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:03 pm on July 3, 2009 i just did something really horrible. I've been confused about my gf for a pretty long time and she's been wanting to get with some other guy. Techincally she's not cheating but she wanted to(i read her messages and i found out) I was talking to my best friends sister, and we're both having relationship problems, and then somehow we started making out...I've never cheated on a girl before because i know how it feels and i cant believe that i did it... I dont know why but i couldnt stop myself and i tried...what do i do -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 11:04 pm on July 3, 2009 Who do you love? You need to think it very well, stau with ur gf for a while -- Posted by starularcircles at 11:04 pm on July 3, 2009 you could...pretend it never happened. and try to forget it happened... -- Posted by The Last Magister at 11:04 pm on July 3, 2009 Pray. -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:05 pm on July 3, 2009 I love my girlfriend and i told the other girl i dont want to leave her and its complicated but it might be best if she was gone but that i cant...I've never done something this horrible before. it literally just happened...it wasn't just a ten second kiss either... -- Posted by alli wonderland at 11:06 pm on July 3, 2009 tell your girlfriend. -- Posted by serenarawr at 11:06 pm on July 3, 2009 tell your girlfriend, if you care you'd tell her the truth -- Posted by Aileyy at 11:06 pm on July 3, 2009 be a man and tell your girlfriend. -- Posted by brittnutz at 11:08 pm on July 3, 2009 shame on u !!! -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:13 pm on July 3, 2009 how do i tell her?! and what do i do about this girl? her self esteem is just as low as mine and i dont want her thinking she was just a booty call or something. -- Posted by Aileyy at 12:20 am on July 4, 2009 So you are more concerned about this girl than your own girlfriend? -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 12:24 am on July 4, 2009 If you really love your girlfriend, you would of never cheated on her willingly. That's a fact. Your current relationship is missing something, because both you and your girlfriend are wanting to be with other people. You may want to be with her, but sub consciously you don't.  Tell your girlfriend what happened and suggest taking a break. -- Posted by Anonymous at 9:47 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 3:20 am on July 4, 2009 So you are more concerned about this girl than your own girlfriend? my girlfriend by far, i already told the other girl that it cant happen again -- Posted by kaylar28 at 9:34 pm on July 4, 2009 Your gf was thinking about hooking up with another guy, not saying that gives you the right to do that, but just talk to her about it...shes no better than you are.