-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:28 pm on July 3, 2009 http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-reasons-not-to-tell-her-youve-cheated_10.html I just read two topics on cheating, and i dont want to look like an ass so this will be anon. I looked through this site and it says it would be selfish to tell that you cheated. Women dont want to know, it will just hurt them more. And telling them will only clear the cheaters conscience, and only hurt the woman. i'm not gonna repeat everything said so i put the link at the top. it all makes pretty good sense, what do you think? -- Posted by The Last Magister at 11:31 pm on July 3, 2009 Kinda like how if offered if you or she die first, you pick her so you get the mental agony of knowing she died, not her. -- Posted by Aileyy at 11:33 pm on July 3, 2009 The girl will find out no matter what, its selfish not to tell her. -- Posted by meghank91 at 11:38 pm on July 3, 2009 i've always felt that way about cheating. -- Posted by MAKINGstrangers at 11:41 pm on July 3, 2009 As a female reading that article, I was disgusted. Women really do want to know.. even though it will hurt them.  It's pretty gutless to cheat on someone, and telling the truth will take some courage but it needs to be done if you ever expect a future with this girl. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 12:04 am on July 4, 2009 It's called honesty. You better be the one to tell her as soon as you can, then her FIND OUT for herself later. Then she will feel as if you were hiding it and assume that you are hiding a TON of other dirty secrets.   Why do you care if you hurt the woman? If you gave a flying fuck about her, then you wouldn't of cheated in the first place.