-- Posted by clockworkorange71 at 12:49 am on July 4, 2009 I'm currently living away from my boyfriend.. long distance.. and he pretty much said that if I didn't move, I wouldn't be seeing him anymore.. pretty much that I move or we're through.  He hates the idea of living here.. I guess you could say he hates Canada.. and he has no intentions of moving.  But I love it here.. it's where I was born, raised, this is where my family and friends are.. my home.  And even if I would love someone.. I couldn't give that all up.. I have no intention of leaving here. So, I'm just curious.. what would you do? -- Posted by Tits McGee at 12:50 am on July 4, 2009 Honestly, I probably would have for my first love. How silly. -- Posted by ItsEllaYeah at 12:50 am on July 4, 2009 Never. EVER! -- Posted by Catalyst11 at 12:50 am on July 4, 2009 It completely depends, if you were 100% sure you were going to get married to this person, and have a long future with them, then I'd do it, but if you aren't sure whether that will happen or not, you should probably stay -- Posted by brittnutz at 12:50 am on July 4, 2009 nawww hell no -- Posted by Aileyy at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 well idk it seems selfish that he is having you make the compromise. but i suppose i would idk. -- Posted by See Me Now at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 Yes, I would leave everything behind if it were me. -- Posted by utheh at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 chasey -- Posted by EmerleeX at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 For my current boyfriend.... yes. If I was like older, had a stable job and enough money to move away. But tbqh, he can't love you all that much to ask you to give up evrything in your life. I'm guessing your like just a teen, don't have a job and don't have LOADS of savings. Tell; me if i'm wrong :) So tbqh, if you don't have the money, you shouldn't leave the stability behind. -- Posted by Poker Shark at 12:52 am on July 4, 2009 Yes. I want to leave my life behind and just leave and never come back anyway. I guess I'd only do it if it were somewhere I wanted to go. -- Posted by guitargod1 at 12:52 am on July 4, 2009 if there was another reason to go such as school or a job... then yes. but if its just him. thats way too much of a chance -- Posted by clockworkorange71 at 12:53 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from utheh at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 chasey umm what does that mean exactly.. lol. -- Posted by clockworkorange71 at 12:55 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from EmerleeX at 12:51 am on July 4, 2009 For my current boyfriend.... yes. If I was like older, had a stable job and enough money to move away. But tbqh, he can't love you all that much to ask you to give up evrything in your life. I'm guessing your like just a teen, don't have a job and don't have LOADS of savings. Tell; me if i'm wrong :) So tbqh, if you don't have the money, you shouldn't leave the stability behind. Well, it would be later on when I'm able to move out and everything.  I don't have any money or job or anything, and was planning to stay here and go to college. Plus.. I'm assuming he would want me to move to where he lives.. and I don't speak the language, so I would be lost there.. it would be difficult for me in that aspect as well. -- Posted by Suicidebooth at 12:55 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Tits McGee at 12:50 am on July 4, 2009 Honestly, I probably would have for my first love. How silly. I know what you mean i would do the smae thing. But fuck i doubt she would do anything :( -- Posted by drifting at 12:56 am on July 4, 2009 Yeah, probably. I dont have much going for me anyways -- Posted by Aerie at 1:11 am on July 4, 2009 I could. And I will. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 1:42 am on July 4, 2009 Mmmn if I was in that situation then I wouldn't. Guys come and go. Don't leave your family and friends for a guy. Your family and friends will ALWAYS be there for you when you need them the most. Don't just up and leave them. -- Posted by Joep0113 at 11:45 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aerie at 3:11 am on July 4, 2009 I could. And I will. -- Posted by LoveKay at 12:07 pm on July 4, 2009 Hopeless romantics whose love life ends up failing miserably will say yes, they will leave.  But you will only have one place where you truly belong while many partners throughout your life. If your boyfriend is threatening you to move or else it's over, then you shouldn't even be with him! He should respect where you belong, what makes you happy. I think of it this way. There are going to be many men in my life and I already know it because I'm still young. I'll enjoy love--it's something that accompanies me, not something that IS me while my family & career IS ME. -- Posted by nik1 at 12:51 pm on July 4, 2009 So, what he is saying is that where he lives is more important than you.  Hmm.....if I didn't want to leave I would tell him that he needs to pack his bags.