-- Posted by DannyBoi at 1:36 am on July 4, 2009 Tonight I have my first date with my boyfriend. It's my first ever date with anyone. I feel so nervous. My stomach is full of butterflies. I just have all these "thoughts" running through my head: -what if I'm too shy to react properly to him? -what happens if we kiss and I'm a rubbish kisser? -how do I know the right time to hold hands when we walk along the beach? -what happens if we do break the "no sex on the first date" rule? I guess it's normal to feel these nerves? -- Posted by Thanantos at 1:37 am on July 4, 2009 Yes that it is. -- Posted by august 24 2009 at 1:38 am on July 4, 2009 it's okay if you fuck him. everyone does that -- Posted by mem18 at 1:38 am on July 4, 2009 make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids goodluck -- Posted by latedelivery at 1:39 am on July 4, 2009 it will b fine dude just relax :D and  good luck -- Posted by ItsEllaYeah at 1:39 am on July 4, 2009 I very much doubt you'll have sex on the first date. Plus I'd avoid holding hands, it's gonna be boiling and clammyness is SO unsexy. And seriously, I'm sure he'd be just as nervous as you are, unless he was a player and has been on thousands of dates. -- Posted by DannyBoi at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from mem18 at 9:38 am on July 4, 2009 make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids goodluck Thanks for the luck. But there are more straights with AIDS than gays, that's just a nasty stereotype. -- Posted by Aileyy at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009 Im sure everything will work out fine, dont worry so much and just relax. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009 Just chill, i'm sure everything will be fine! Have fun and tell us how it went. Good luck :) -- Posted by SoaringFalcon2010 at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009 Just chill out! You will know when its the right time for all of the above and things will go great just dont think about it and go with the flow be optimistic! -- Posted by Corrupted Innocence at 1:43 am on July 4, 2009 You will be fine HOWEVER Don't break the sex rule, it's not a good idea in my opinion wait that one out. You will be fine, I know you are nervous however think it's it part of the fun of it. The kiss well sometimes it's down to nerves so I'm sure he will understand as I'm guessing you will have spoken to him about these things. Try and relax, you are going to have a fab night and I expect to hear how it goes -- Posted by Krebons at 1:44 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DannyBoi at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from mem18 at 9:38 am on July 4, 2009 make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids    goodluck Thanks for the luck. But there are more straights with AIDS than gays, that's just a nasty stereotype. Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't there be more straights than gays anyway? I'm not making any stereotypes, but the ratio may be higher. IDK really. -- Posted by Live Just To Die at 1:46 am on July 4, 2009 Just chill out, take it slowly and everything will work out fine. First kisses are really shit but you can work on them with a little practise. That is always fun. Things work out naturally, there is no point in worrying. Just take it one step at a time :) -- Posted by jsia at 1:49 am on July 4, 2009 Yeah it's normal hun, just got with whatever happens. -- Posted by ssminow at 1:53 am on July 4, 2009 just go with the flow :] but dont EVER let a guy make you do anything you dont want to. good luck! -- Posted by aejae at 1:54 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Krebons at 1:44 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DannyBoi at 1:40 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from mem18 at 9:38 am on July 4, 2009 make sure he doesnt have aids before ya'll have sex. and wear a condom if your the giver cause gays tend to have aids   goodluck    Thanks for the luck.    But there are more straights with AIDS than gays, that's just a nasty stereotype. Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't there be more straights than gays anyway? I'm not making any stereotypes, but the ratio may be higher. IDK really. agreed