-- Posted by deuces13 at 3:47 am on July 4, 2009 Well i fell in love with this girl in about August 2008. We started talking and flirting, then before you know it, we started saying those 3 dreaded words: I Love You. I really did love her, but at some point in the relationship i felt used. She would ask me to do this and get that for her, and i did. Well, one day she told me it was over, just like that; but sooner or later I found out that she left me for some other richer, better looking, and basically a "better" guy than me, and every fuckin day i was sitting alone wondering what they were doing, where did I go wrong, and if I still loved her or not. They went out for some time, and over that time i found myself getting over my feelings for her a little day-by-day. Then something tragic happened, it turns out he's doing the same thing to her that she was doing to me..."What goes around comes around, bitch". So now she wants me to take her back . I realize that I have come this far by getting over her, but deep down inside i know that I still have feelings for her. So should I take her back or tell her to get the fuck out my face. I really want your opinions Livewire -- Posted by ToyJetpack at 3:50 am on July 4, 2009 To me, it seems like she got what was coming to her. She presumably thought she could do better than you, and she was wrong. -- Posted by My Dreams WILL Wait at 3:52 am on July 4, 2009 To be honest with you, you were being used. She obviously didn't value anything about you...and now you don't know what her reasons are for wanting you back.. She showed you the true colors. Start a new life with someone else.. -- Posted by FallenLeaves at 3:54 am on July 4, 2009 don't go back to her. you're basically a back burner to her. once she finds someone new, she'll hurt you all over again. if she left you for looks/money, then obviously you 2 weren't on the same page in the first place (feeling-wise). don't give her another chance, then she'll think that she can do it again. walk away, and find someone new. -- Posted by jsia at 3:55 am on July 4, 2009 No, don't you dare take her back. Sorry, but she treated you like shit, and aimed higher. She got knocked down so she's probably on the rebound again. Give her a dose of her own medicine, and keep your chin up. -- Posted by cant see life at 4:01 am on July 4, 2009 well, think about this before u let her go. do u ever think yull regret not having her back. if so give her another shot. then if u realize shes a total bitch and that u truelly dont love her and all the feelings are gone then forget her and dump her. but if u think ull never regret it then dont bother. trust me regret is one of the worst feelings known to men. -- Posted by deuces13 at 4:02 am on July 4, 2009 Thanks for your opinions you guys -- Posted by El Burrito at 4:15 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from cant see life at 7:01 pm on July 4, 2009 well, think about this before u let her go. do u ever think yull regret not having her back. if so give her another shot. then if u realize shes a total bitch and that u truelly dont love her and all the feelings are gone then forget her and dump her. but if u think ull never regret it then dont bother. trust me regret is one of the worst feelings known to men. i dont really agree with this at all... she was a bitch to you, and now that someones upset her, all she wants (whether she realises it or not) is someone to make her feel good about herself. she thinks going back to the guy she dumped before who had genuine feelings for her is the easiest option. if she had any of the feelings you should be looking for in a girlfriend then she never would have dumped you in the first place, and definately wouldn't come running back to you the way she has done. if you get back together, i *guarantee* the same or a similar thing will happen again. ive seen it a lot of times before, and have been in one relationship where it happened. i promise it never works out again -- Posted by My Dreams WILL Wait at 4:17 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from El Burrito at 4:15 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from cant see life at 7:01 pm on July 4, 2009 well, think about this before u let her go. do u ever think yull regret not having her back. if so give her another shot. then if u realize shes a total bitch and that u truelly dont love her and all the feelings are gone then forget her and dump her. but if u think ull never regret it then dont bother. trust me regret is one of the worst feelings known to men. i dont really agree with this at all... she was a bitch to you, and now that someones upset her, all she wants (whether she realises it or not) is someone to make her feel good about herself. she thinks going back to the guy she dumped before who had genuine feelings for her is the easiest option. if she had any of the feelings you should be looking for in a girlfriend then she never would have dumped you in the first place, and definately wouldn't come running back to you the way she has done. if you get back together, i *guarantee* the same or a similar thing will happen again. ive seen it a lot of times before, and have been in one relationship where it happened. i promise it never works out again Agreed