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-- Posted by Gaelle at 7:22 am on July 4, 2009

I always take the pill at 8 'o clock on the dot. Maybe an hour later when I'm on the bus on my way home.

So, should already be safe there.

AND I always use condoms...spermicide if I don't want to use those.

There we have two methods of birth control, the first one definitely very safe.

And yet, whenever that Friday comes around, the day I usually get my period, I panic!

Why? Because it would be just my luck to get pregnant.


-- Posted by GoldenAdia18 at 7:23 am on July 4, 2009

As long as you do either of them, you'll be fine. Chill


-- Posted by aejae at 7:24 am on July 4, 2009

you're a lesbian... having sex with men?


-- Posted by Skullie at 7:25 am on July 4, 2009

Just to be safe put 3 condoms on


-- Posted by Jasonzlpa at 7:25 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from GoldenAdia18 at 9:23 am on July 4, 2009


As long as you do either of them, you'll be fine. Chill


Lol...   not always.  My aunt had her first kid while on the pill and using a condom.  Quite funny, in my opinion.


-- Posted by Amin mele lle at 7:27 am on July 4, 2009

Aren't you a sex ed teacher or something?


-- Posted by Maxie at 7:27 am on July 4, 2009

You're probably fine. Using two methods of birth control bumps the effectiveness up to almost 100%. But yeah, I get paranoid too.


-- Posted by XxemochickxX at 7:46 am on July 4, 2009

im sure you are fine, ive took the pill for a year, and i havent got pregnant at all so yea


-- Posted by Gaelle at 7:54 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Amin mele lle at 7:27 am on July 4, 2009


Aren't you a sex ed teacher or something?

Ironic, isn't it?


-- Posted by LoveKay at 12:03 pm on July 4, 2009

Thats what everybody says, "Just my luck." Perhaps your attitude is what will get you pregnant, not your "luck."


-- Posted by Gaelle at 2:29 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from LoveKay at 12:03 pm on July 4, 2009


Thats what everybody says, "Just my luck." Perhaps your attitude is what will get you pregnant, not your "luck."

Did you even read the topic?

My attitude is,"I don't want to get pregnant," not, "Mhm...if I do get pregnant..that'd be typical.."

I'm afraid of it.


-- Posted by dragonking at 2:51 pm on July 4, 2009

Stop having sex until you are married and ready to have kids.


-- Posted by KweenZ at 1:05 am on July 6, 2009

Yea, Everytime i have sex i think im pregnant and i stress the hell out thats why i dont need to do it.. But .. Its so hard to stop :\


-- Posted by LoveKay at 4:37 pm on July 6, 2009

Quote: from Gaelle at 3:29 pm on July 4, 2009


Quote: from LoveKay at 12:03 pm on July 4, 2009

Thats what everybody says, "Just my luck." Perhaps your attitude is what will get you pregnant, not your "luck."

Did you even read the topic?

My attitude is,"I don't want to get pregnant," not, "Mhm...if I do get pregnant..that'd be typical.."

I'm afraid of it.  


Yeah, I did read it.

You specifically said...


Why? Because it would be just my luck to get pregnant.

This is an attitude. This is your attitude.


-- Posted by Gaelle at 11:06 pm on July 6, 2009

Quote: from dragonking at 2:51 pm on July 4, 2009


Stop having sex until you are married and ready to have kids.

No, thank you.

What if I don't want to get married?

I generally don't want kids.


-- Posted by kaylar28 at 8:31 am on July 7, 2009

Imo if your always worried about getting pregnant maybe you shouldnt be having sex.


-- Posted by Gaelle at 11:02 am on July 7, 2009

Quote: from kaylar28 at 8:31 am on July 7, 2009


Imo if your always worried about getting pregnant maybe you shouldnt be having sex.

Haha.

I'm not going to spoil it for me, just because I'm paranoid.


-- Posted by Italianlnm at 11:07 am on July 7, 2009

It is normal to be paranoid about being pregnant once having sex, because pregnancy is the worst outcome of sex if you aren't wanting to become pregnant (Other than std's). So I mean you know you aren't going to get pregnant, and it is more slim-to-none even the chances.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 11:44 am on July 7, 2009

Have you ever considered Female sterilization, IUD, or an implant? Little or nothing to do. Less than 1 pregnancy per 100 women each year.


-- Posted by Gaelle at 1:25 pm on July 7, 2009

Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 11:44 am on July 7, 2009


Have you ever considered Female sterilization, IUD, or an implant? Little or nothing to do. Less than 1 pregnancy per 100 women each year.

I'm 18 years old, I'm not getting sterilized.

I have considered the IUD and my gyno told me it's not really appropriate for women until they've had one child.

The implant...mhm...I know that my mom had a lot of trouble with it, so...I'm not sure.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 6:11 pm on July 7, 2009

You said that you generally didn't want kids, so I thought sterilization might be good. The next step down would be the shot, the pill, the ring, or the patch. 2-8 per 100 pregnancies a year.


-- Posted by Italianlnm at 6:20 pm on July 7, 2009

I heard that the ring works really good, but the shot has baddd side effects that are seen/felt in most of the woman on it.


-- Posted by Gaelle at 1:25 am on July 8, 2009

Quote: from MissPrixy07 at 6:11 pm on July 7, 2009


You said that you generally didn't want kids, so I thought sterilization might be good. The next step down would be the shot, the pill, the ring, or the patch. 2-8 per 100 pregnancies a year.

Like I said in the topic...I'm on the pill and I always use condoms as a back up.

No doctor would sterilize someone at age 18, for good reasons.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 5:54 pm on July 8, 2009

I know, I'm just giving the best advice available.


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