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-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:05 am on July 4, 2009

=ok, so me and my boyfriend tried to have sex. but it hurt WAY TO MUCH to do anything.
I want to have sex with him but i dont want it to hurt as bad as it did.
any suggestions to make it not hurt as much?  


-- Posted by xsnortingxashesx at 8:06 am on July 4, 2009

Lube for the short term, having sex more often for the long term.


-- Posted by Jasonzlpa at 8:06 am on July 4, 2009

Um....  foreplay for awhile until it stretches out a bit.


-- Posted by Chasey at 8:06 am on July 4, 2009

lube


-- Posted by dark raven x at 8:11 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Anonymous at 4:05 pm on July 4, 2009


=ok, so me and my boyfriend tried to have sex. but it hurt WAY TO MUCH to do anything.
I want to have sex with him but i dont want it to hurt as bad as it did.
any suggestions to make it not hurt as much?

Sounds a bit urgh bit if you pop your cherry during masturbation i.e controling it yourself it will make having sex for the first few times alot more pleasureable for you. just try one or 2 fingers to start of with and keep going until you feel comfortable enough to have sex with him without it hurting you.


-- Posted by Emmaaa at 8:20 am on July 4, 2009

Hey, my friend has this problem, just try to get your boyfriend to stretch you more by fingering you and over time it will be okay, :) xx


-- Posted by SexAndCandy at 5:30 pm on July 4, 2009

It didn't hurt at all the first time I had sex and I think it was because we did a lot of fingering before...I was not really conscious that it would help but I now think it really did. I remember at that time i wanted him really bad but I didn't know if I was ready to do the whole thing and doing this...among other things, helped us knowing eachothers bodie a lot better and helped me being a little less scared by sex. We've done things step by step.


-- Posted by Millerr at 9:31 pm on July 4, 2009

more fingering 1st


-- Posted by remaj10 at 2:50 pm on July 5, 2009

foreplay and lube. also make sure you take your time the same thing happened with my gf and me.


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