Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by Mrs Kite at 8:34 am on July 4, 2009 I'm just wondering how many guys out there are actually waiting until marraige, or just waiting for the right girl, or w/e. not just going out and screwing anything on legs. -- Posted by Zack Attack at 8:34 am on July 4, 2009 Me. -- Posted by Chasey at 8:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks i don't see the point i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage. -- Posted by DuBBy at 8:35 am on July 4, 2009 not I -- Posted by Veldel at 8:35 am on July 4, 2009 Waiting for marriage that I am. -- Posted by White Ninja at 8:35 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks i don't see the point i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage. Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey? -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 8:35 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 8:34 am on July 4, 2009 not just going out and screwing anything on legs. Tables everywhere are lamenting with disappointment. -- Posted by MajorT0M at 8:35 am on July 4, 2009 I'm a virgin, I want to wait for the right girl :) -- Posted by Chasey at 8:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks    i don't see the point    i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage. Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey? no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married -- Posted by Jukebox King at 8:37 am on July 4, 2009 I'm waiting for the right girl. :)) -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 8:37 am on July 4, 2009 To answer your question: I don't hold sex as such an importance that it's to be held out on until the right person shows themselves. I'm just fine doing it with a person I'm comfortable with. -- Posted by Maxie at 8:38 am on July 4, 2009 It seems like OP thinks that either you're a virgin til marriage, or a complete utter slut. No in-between? -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 8:38 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 8:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks   i don't see the point   i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage.    Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey? no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married Nicely said. I never really thought about marriage, but it is very Earthly and materialistic. -- Posted by White Ninja at 8:38 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks   i don't see the point   i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage.    Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey? no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married Talk about a generalization. -- Posted by deuces13 at 8:39 am on July 4, 2009 Waiting for the right person -- Posted by Praise the Lard at 8:39 am on July 4, 2009 i hold nothing sacred -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 8:39 am on July 4, 2009 I ain't -- Posted by Mrs Kite at 8:40 am on July 4, 2009 Yay for you jukebox king! :D I really think its sad that there isn't many virgin guys out there. But I think its awesome that guys like you still want to wait for that special someone. -- Posted by Chasey at 8:40 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:38 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks       i don't see the point       i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage.   Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey?    no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married Talk about a generalization. generalizing because it's true for the majority of people marriage is fucking retarded -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 8:41 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 8:38 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:36 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Ninja at 4:35 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Chasey at 9:34 am on July 4, 2009 no thanks       i don't see the point       i'll wait for the right person but i'm not going to wait until marriage. i fucking hate the concept of marriage.   Because then you can't bang multiple chicks without getting in trouble with the wifey?    no, marriage is overly materialistic and i think it's disgusting that people don't take your relationship seriously unless you're married Talk about a generalization. Well yeah the "people don't take relationships seriously unless you're married" part is a tad, as it implies that marriage is only for those people, but I'm thinking that most people see it this way to some extent. -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 8:43 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 8:40 am on July 4, 2009 Yay for you jukebox king! :D I really think its sad that there isn't many virgin guys out there. But I think its awesome that guys like you still want to wait for that special someone. This makes me wonder, Mrs Kite, why do you consider sex to be so important that you have to wait for the "right" person? -- Posted by Mrs Kite at 8:46 am on July 4, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes? idk....thats just my opinion. -- Posted by Hggh7 at 8:46 am on July 4, 2009 Waiting till I get some. -- Posted by belizabeth at 8:47 am on July 4, 2009 not me for sure. I screwed up. -- Posted by Chasey at 8:47 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 4:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes?   idk....thats just my opinion. but new shoes are tight and painful and inexperienced i want shoes that have some experience so they know what they're doing and they're more fun and can share with me their past experiences completely killed that metaphore -- Posted by Mrs Kite at 8:51 am on July 4, 2009 Why? So she can compare you to other ppl and say oh well he did this and hes better? YOu don't want to be compared with others do you? -- Posted by Chasey at 8:52 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 4:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Why? So she can compare you to other ppl and say oh well he did this and hes better? YOu don't want to be compared with others do you? no, why would i want that if i'm sleeping with someone obviously they love me enough not to compare me to other people in a hurtful way, or atleast outloud and if they do compare me to people, i dont care, it's the truth -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 8:57 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 8:46 am on July 4, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes?   idk....thats just my opinion. Well that's understandable I guess. I wouldn't say "you're SUPPOSED to...", but that's a good reason to hold out. I just don't consider everything that I can't get back as "sacred". I get that your first time with anything is special, and you probably wont forget it, but that doesn't make it important. Just different. My point is that "you're SUPPOSED to..." isn't a very good reason, when your excuse is that you can't get it back. Virginity is an idea people just made up. I really like fighting, but I wouldn't hold out my first fight for some one I especially despise. It's the same idea as holding out on sex for some one you especially love. It's a nice idea, but nothing you're supposed to do. Now I'm not saying you SHOULDN'T hold out, I'm just saying there's no universally great reason to. I think that people hold their first sex experience as more important than their first time with anything else because people have given it a name. -- Posted by Maxie at 9:07 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Mrs Kite at 1:46 am on July 5, 2009 Because your virginity is something you can't get back, your suppose to save it for that specail someone and give it to them as a gift. I mean think of it this way when you do get married what are you gunna tell your husband if he has kept his virginity for you and youve been with a million ppl. (not saying you have) but I mean its like a new pair of shoes kind of, would you give a pair of worn out shoes that everyone has been in to a friend or husband w/e, or would you give him new shoes?   idk....thats just my opinion. You're implying it's worth something, though. -- Posted by Chiefette at 10:11 am on July 4, 2009 I didn't wait for marriage but I didn't do everthing that walks.  There are very much in between states.  Someone who waits is no better than I am. Pages: 1 2  Next