-- Posted by murphy mcbagel at 2:54 pm on July 4, 2009 the reason i kept hanging out with this girl is because I said yes to go to prom with her, because my dad was like "it's the only chance she'll have to have a good time!" and that fucker guilt tripped me into doint it, i would NOT of done it otherwise. So I kept like going to movies, and doing stuff with all this anger thoughts like "why are you doing this dumbass? she doesn't like the terminator, she doesn't like disc golf" and i acted all mopey and depressed at prom because i was a PUSSY who had no free will!! and she didn't know I was that antisocial either. but now I feel bad about ceasing all contact after 3 weeks. I didn't want her to know what a depressing person i truly was. plus she's a private school girl who's going to a very famous college in my state, and im a loser who'll probably become a pastor or something. would she talk to me even though I randomly stopped all contact? -- Posted by DangerouslyDisturbed at 2:56 pm on July 4, 2009 Does it matter if you don't like her? -- Posted by sixguns at 2:56 pm on July 4, 2009 only one way to find out contact her -- Posted by WickedWiccan at 2:57 pm on July 4, 2009 I wouldn't unless you explained why you did it. -- Posted by murphy mcbagel at 2:58 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DangerouslyDisturbed at 2:56 pm on July 4, 2009 Does it matter if you don't like her? why? I very rarely change my opinion on a person. -- Posted by DangerouslyDisturbed at 2:59 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from murphy mcbagel at 2:58 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DangerouslyDisturbed at 2:56 pm on July 4, 2009 Does it matter if you don't like her? why? I very rarely change my opinion on a person. You said you didn't really like her. But want to contact her now?? -- Posted by tell me again at 3:04 pm on July 4, 2009 It depends if you stopped contact in a casual or a really obvious way. Maybe she just thought you fell out of contact. You didn't exactly date her anyway, right? So no hard feelings (unless she thought you were together?). Having said that though, why do you want to contact her? If you don't like her much and you don't enjoy doing the same things, then you probably wouldn't enjoy hanging out with her again. You could still talk to her though. And if you just want to talk to her because you think she's better than you, then it might be hard to form a real friendship anyway... -- Posted by jsia at 3:16 pm on July 4, 2009 I'm confused...are you annoyed because you don't like her and were stuck with her, or because she might not talk to you again? -- Posted by murphy mcbagel at 3:19 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from tell me again at 3:04 pm on July 4, 2009 It depends if you stopped contact in a casual or a really obvious way. Maybe she just thought you fell out of contact. You didn't exactly date her anyway, right? So no hard feelings (unless she thought you were together?).   Having said that though, why do you want to contact her? If you don't like her much and you don't enjoy doing the same things, then you probably wouldn't enjoy hanging out with her again. You could still talk to her though. And if you just want to talk to her because you think she's better than you, then it might be hard to form a real friendship anyway... well i never found out if we had things in common. she just made me nervous, and i still felt forced to "keep the ball rolling" if you know what i mean. -- Posted by murphy mcbagel at 3:24 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from jsia at 3:16 pm on July 4, 2009 I'm confused...are you annoyed because you don't like her and were stuck with her, or because she might not talk to you again? at the beginning yeah, but now i feel i let a good chance go away. cause well all the girls i've been with were slutty, or kind of crazy, but I've never dated someone like normal. -- Posted by tell me again at 3:38 pm on July 4, 2009 It should be fine then, just talk to her again. There aren't that many "normal" people though.