-- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 3:07 pm on July 4, 2009 I'd really like to make a friend who's a girl that I can hug and be friendly with, without sending her message or people thinking stuff. Hell, even showing a girl I care if uncomfortable. I saw a girl crying in school one time, and I wanted to help, but I couldn't "cuz she has a vag n stuf". Now I give nothing more than feces for what people think of me, but I hate having a dispute left unsettled, much less being judged for a misunderstanding. People seem to take anything more than a tad bit friendly as a sign. Hell, you can't even ask if some one's going out or not without them thinking crap. People think you either like them, or, if you're a dude, you're a perv or you're gay. Suxanut if you ask me. Does anyone else think this way? If you saw a some one hug some one else, or kiss them on the hand or cheek, or some one doing this with most of his/her friends, what would you assume of them? For the sake of extra traffic; penis. -- Posted by sixguns at 3:10 pm on July 4, 2009 lol i used to stop in the halls of my school to comfort the girls and sometimes on those rare times guys all the time but thats stoped even though i still feel bad when i see someone hurt in the halls -- Posted by TaliaBBy at 3:23 pm on July 4, 2009 boy / girl friends usually have feelings eventually...unless the dude's gay . -- Posted by ilovemyheart at 3:23 pm on July 4, 2009 If it makes you feel good.... then hug away. If someone points and laughs at you...... chances are, they are feeling just as low as the person you hugged... and they are trying to get a rise. -- Posted by tell me again at 4:08 pm on July 4, 2009 Everyone's going to speculate and talk anyway because it's gossip. But if you're not dating someone then you're not dating, and most people will get used to it eventually -- Posted by kaylar28 at 8:37 pm on July 4, 2009 You just need to ignore people that are like that. You can definately be friends with the opposite sex and have nothing more than a friendship. Some people are unable to though but people shouldnt judge everyone else based on a few others. -- Posted by yusack at 4:09 am on July 5, 2009 I honestly think you shouldn't even worry about people thinking your gay because you hang out with girls. I'm sure they assumption already.