-- Posted by Complex Kid at 7:43 pm on July 4, 2009 I've always had trouble connecting to people, so to speak. Its not hard for me to deal with people, I can deal with people, I don't give them any shit, and they usually like me enough. Or at least tolerate/respect me. I'm pretty reserved, yet, one on one, I'm a decent conversationalist. But I just have a hard time taking it to the level of making them a real friend, to seeing them outside of school/work. I guess that this is mainly because of my personality. I am a very guarded, reserved person, I'm independent. These aren't necessarily things that I want to change completely, you shouldn't change yourself completely just to get other peoples approval, but I would like to make more friends or at least acquaintances.