-- Posted by DeForest at 8:21 pm on July 4, 2009 I've been best friends with my friend since we were in second grade. We've done everything together. After school activities, tried out for the football team together, were denied together, shared our first joint and beer together. Pretty much like brothers. Lately he's been trying to set me up with this girl who's had a crush on me since JR year in HS. He's never single and knows exactly how to talk to girls (hard to believe since we're both a bit socially retarded). He's been pushing a lot lately, bringing her up every second of the day. Should I just tell him I'm gay and get it over with? I doubt he'll react badly, but I'd really rather not tell anyone. I'm just so sick of his inability to drop the issue. -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 8:22 pm on July 4, 2009 I think you should date the girl and he will leave you alone I think. -- Posted by DeForest at 8:23 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 8:22 pm on July 4, 2009 I think you should date the girl and he will leave you alone I think. Why date someone I'm not attracted to at all, though? -- Posted by coffee brown at 8:23 pm on July 4, 2009 yeah you should probably tell him, being as close as you two are, he'll understand hopefully -- Posted by latedelivery at 8:23 pm on July 4, 2009 if your not ready to tell him dont -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 8:23 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DeForest at 8:23 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 8:22 pm on July 4, 2009 I think you should date the girl and he will leave you alone I think.   Why date someone I'm not attracted to at all, though? But just do it, treat her like you BFF. -- Posted by TaliaBBy at 8:23 pm on July 4, 2009 tell him you're gay... daisymontana is fucking retarded dont date a girl you dont like. -- Posted by sixguns at 8:24 pm on July 4, 2009 go for it -- Posted by Aileyy at 8:25 pm on July 4, 2009 tell him. -- Posted by Doubleshift at 8:28 pm on July 4, 2009 Tell him you're gay. -- Posted by Millerr at 9:13 pm on July 4, 2009 tell him if your best friends he'll understand -- Posted by DrFeelzGood at 9:14 pm on July 4, 2009 I'd tell him your gay. -- Posted by DeForest at 9:21 pm on July 4, 2009 Thanks for your opinions.