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-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:10 am on July 5, 2009

Okay, my mother is schizophrenic. That means she is disabled and I should feel sorry for her. Of course I do. But, she is absolutely ridiculous. She's a fat obese cow who only cares about food. She is so incredibly lazy, that the only thing that she cares about in her life is watching tv and eating!! She can't work because shes schizophrenic and she doesn't WANT to do anything else. She has no interest in anything but eating. She can't drive because she's schizo so my auny (her sister) has to drive her everwhere for shopping and doctors. My mother is always demanding too much of her sister and making her drive her everywhere and being greedy about food. She's obese! On the verge of diabetes and she's so disgusting. She's so lazy that she doesn't even care about her hygiene. She doesn't wash herself properly or clean her own apartment. Ugh. I just feel bad for hating her, but I do. She's lazy, greedy, and disgusting. She's a bad person because she uses everyone around her.


-- Posted by JMfan at 10:11 am on July 5, 2009

I'm sorry. :/


-- Posted by robdude at 10:11 am on July 5, 2009

wow, poor women!


-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:12 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from robdude at 10:11 am on July 5, 2009


wow, poor women!

yes, but she is only 36 years old! she could change all this but she's too lazy!


-- Posted by omgnowayyy at 10:12 am on July 5, 2009

Well, she has a psychological disorder, which doesn't mean she deserves sympathy but she probably needs more discipline in her life from those around her who can make more rational and responsible decisions. maybe.


-- Posted by looking4her7 at 10:13 am on July 5, 2009

>:[] ur right...she pisses me off too...


-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:14 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from omgnowayyy at 10:12 am on July 5, 2009


Well, she has a psychological disorder, which doesn't mean she deserves sympathy but she probably needs more discipline in her life from those around her who can make more rational and responsible decisions. maybe.

well, we all feel sorry for her and that's why my aunt and grandpa listen to all he demands and they're just ridiculous demands about food and stupid things. she's just ridiculous. ugh.


-- Posted by speakslowlove at 10:14 am on July 5, 2009

I don't think you hate her like completely- you just hate what she's become and is probably embarassed.
I understand...my mother's "some-what" like that..kind of..


-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:15 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from speakslowlove at 10:14 am on July 5, 2009


I don't think you hate her like completely- you just hate what she's become and is probably embarassed.  
I understand...my mother's "some-what" like that..kind of..

yes, i am extremely embarassed. EXTREMELY. because shes my mom. i hate that shes my mom. it. sucks. i dont want her as a mom. =[


-- Posted by Sqi 8000 at 10:15 am on July 5, 2009

you've just got to make sure that doesn't happen to you then haven't you.


-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:16 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from Sqi 8000 at 10:15 am on July 5, 2009


you've just got to make sure that doesn't happen to you then haven't you.

um, well why would it?


-- Posted by lovelight at 10:18 am on July 5, 2009

she really should get up off her arse and do something about it btw!
i feel sorry for you + your aunty, your aunty should drive her round to a weight watcher class or something so she can get help!


-- Posted by speakslowlove at 10:18 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from justaxdream at 1:15 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from speakslowlove at 10:14 am on July 5, 2009

I don't think you hate her like completely- you just hate what she's become and is probably embarassed.  
 I understand...my mother's "some-what" like that..kind of..

yes, i am extremely embarassed. EXTREMELY. because shes my mom. i hate that shes my mom. it. sucks. i dont want her as a mom. =[



I feel you. Just keep your head up and do you, but always love her because she has a sickness and when people are sick-they can't really help themselves. They need to feed off of everyone else to be strong..


-- Posted by omgnowayyy at 10:19 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from justaxdream at 12:14 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from omgnowayyy at 10:12 am on July 5, 2009

Well, she has a psychological disorder, which doesn't mean she deserves sympathy but she probably needs more discipline in her life from those around her who can make more rational and responsible decisions. maybe.

well, we all feel sorry for her and that's why my aunt and grandpa listen to all he demands and they're just ridiculous demands about food and stupid things. she's just ridiculous. ugh.


If your mother is schizophrenic, nobody should be giving her sympathy and adhering to her demands.

Was she lazy, fat, and demanding prior to having her schizo symptoms?


-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:21 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from omgnowayyy at 10:19 am on July 5, 2009


Quote: from justaxdream at 12:14 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from omgnowayyy at 10:12 am on July 5, 2009

Well, she has a psychological disorder, which doesn't mean she deserves sympathy but she probably needs more discipline in her life from those around her who can make more rational and responsible decisions. maybe.

well, we all feel sorry for her and that's why my aunt and grandpa listen to all he demands and they're just ridiculous demands about food and stupid things. she's just ridiculous. ugh.


If your mother is schizophrenic, nobody should be giving her sympathy and adhering to her demands.

Was she lazy, fat, and demanding prior to having her schizo symptoms?


no. thats the thing. this illness has made her into an entirely different person. she used to care about things. she used to have desires other than food. she used to have desires to go OUT like go out for walks, go on vacation, drive somewhere, work, clean. now she is too lazy and all she does is watch TV and get more fat.


-- Posted by Sqi 8000 at 10:28 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from justaxdream at 10:16 am on July 5, 2009


Quote: from Sqi 8000 at 10:15 am on July 5, 2009

you've just got to make sure that doesn't happen to you then haven't you.

um, well why would it?


parents can easily pass on undesired traits to their offspring.. constant eating like you said is undesirable. so you've got to make sure it doesn't happen to you.

just a simple example.. don't mind me.


-- Posted by justaxdream at 10:32 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from Sqi 8000 at 10:28 am on July 5, 2009


Quote: from justaxdream at 10:16 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from Sqi 8000 at 10:15 am on July 5, 2009

you've just got to make sure that doesn't happen to you then haven't you.
 

 um, well why would it?


parents can easily pass on undesired traits to their offspring.. constant eating like you said is undesirable. so you've got to make sure it doesn't happen to you.

just a simple example.. don't mind me.


right. my bad.


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