-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:21 pm on July 5, 2009 im gonna keep this short and vague and not attach anything personal to it so u can give honest opinions. girlfriend said randomly that we should just be friends and its not gonna work. shes an hr away for the summer so we dont see each other too much. i said ok. we stopped talking. went to a party and she showed up knowing that i was there. it was awkward and we didnt talk. i found out the next day that she was texting my friend asking him if i was mad that she came, etc, she grilled him. then we texted and she said that she had wanted to talk to me. i told her that she looked good and she said i did too. whatever. next day she texted me asking if i was still by my friend near her and i said no and she said she was "just wondering". last night she texted me jsut saying hi and we had a little conversation, and when she went to sleep she said goodnight and put my name. it seemed like it meant something. long story short, dont tell me drop her. i wanna get back with her, or at least start hooking up again. whats this mean? -- Posted by neverjeeps at 6:23 pm on July 5, 2009 it means "i  wanna get back with her, or at least start hooking up again." -- Posted by One Two Step at 6:26 pm on July 5, 2009 you're still attracted to her.. -- Posted by Disposition at 6:27 pm on July 5, 2009 I think you should take it slow. I'd say you have a chance with her, but you've got to put in the time to be with her since you see her less over the summer. I think she's interested at least, though. -- Posted by White Fate at 6:31 pm on July 5, 2009 last night she texted me jsut saying hi and we had a little conversation, and when she went to sleep she said goodnight and put my name. it seemed like it meant something. "goodnight __" means nothing... -- Posted by jack8714 at 6:32 pm on July 5, 2009 yea you moved to fast, slow things down. try not hookign up so much maby? lol.. idk you still want her. but maby she things you dont? idk.. -- Posted by blackarrow at 6:03 am on July 6, 2009 Yea take it slow, give hint, don't tell her flat out...its will come around eventually...and distance really should not be an issue if you both are committed all it means is you fool around less...but the catch is that when you do fool around, ITS GONNA BE GREAT!!!