-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:09 pm on July 5, 2009 i lve him, but he is 19 lazy, doesnt have a job, n it seems like the only time he wants anything 2 do w. me is when i want to have sex, it pisses me off...idk wut 2 do, i want to break up w. him, but i also dont bc i dont want 2 regret it...advice plz -- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:09 pm on July 5, 2009 Dump his ass. -- Posted by coffee brown at 7:10 pm on July 5, 2009 if you're thinking about breaking it off with him, then its already pretty much over. -- Posted by Anamene at 7:10 pm on July 5, 2009 You can't change people if they don't want to be changed... and it doesn't seem like he wants to change if that's the case staying with him will only hurt you in the long run -- Posted by serenarawr at 7:11 pm on July 5, 2009 it doesnt seem like he's doing anything for you, why put off the obvious? -- Posted by atomictastic at 7:12 pm on July 5, 2009 Ya know. dump his behind. -- Posted by GFHOPEFUL at 7:12 pm on July 5, 2009 Wow. Dump his lazy ass and move on.. What is he doing for you? He is using you for sex.. -- Posted by xxemoxdemonxx at 7:13 pm on July 5, 2009 fine somebody better than him or tell him he has to wok for sex -- Posted by Miami0429 at 7:14 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 10:09 pm on July 5, 2009 Dump his ass. THIS^^^ -- Posted by virginia287 at 7:14 pm on July 5, 2009 If he doesn't have any positive qualities than all I can say is that it is time to let the relationship go, ESPECIALLY if he only wants to make time to have sex with you. There is more to a relationship than that, and you deserve much more respect than you're receiving. Despite however difficult it is to break up with someone you have a history with, you have to think about yourself above all else and make sure you are getting what you deserve. And it does not sound like you are...Best of luck. -- Posted by Toxic Temptations at 7:15 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from coffee brown at 7:10 pm on July 5, 2009 if you're thinking about breaking it off with him, then its already pretty much over. Agreed. -- Posted by nousakan at 7:16 pm on July 5, 2009 leave him -- Posted by Lillylove at 11:26 am on July 6, 2009 Use him for the sex but keep looking for a replacement and dump him when someone as good gives you orgasms.