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-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009

I hate them.


-- Posted by devilmaycrydude at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from Ska Ninja at 3:44 pm on Jan. 12, 2009


i will warm them

Okay, go for eet.


-- Posted by amber10lynne at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009

yes you do.


-- Posted by Descartes at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009

I'm sorry that you've had bad luck :(


-- Posted by One Two Step at 7:29 pm on July 5, 2009

Me too.


-- Posted by aejae at 7:29 pm on July 5, 2009

I'm sorry


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 7:29 pm on July 5, 2009

Because you arent attracted to nice guys.


-- Posted by Thanantos at 7:29 pm on July 5, 2009

Oh i am like told by most girls that i am perfect. I want to be amazing not perfect.


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009

For once I'd like someone who doesn't just want sex all the time and who loves me for me.


-- Posted by An Young Guy at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009

You are meant to be a lesbian.


-- Posted by SpRiNgS at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009


For once I'd like someone who doesn't just want sex all the time and who loves me for me.
maybe you're just attracted to the confidence they have?

most girls seem to even if they deny it like a cocksure guy


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 10:29 pm on July 5, 2009


Because you arent attracted to nice guys.

Obviously


-- Posted by An Young Guy at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 10:30 pm on July 5, 2009


For once I'd like someone who doesn't just want sex all the time and who loves me for me.
I can love you for you


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 7:31 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:30 pm on July 5, 2009


For once I'd like someone who doesn't just want sex all the time and who loves me for me.
You want a gay guy?


-- Posted by oridniv at 7:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Well, maybe you should re-examine how you fall for guys, maybe a vibe u put out..b/c I used to be like that but when I stopped caring, it all turned around....I believe what goes around comes around karmic kinda stuff and in my case I used to be a jerk too to really nice guys I wish I hadn't been mean to.


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Maybe its just time to give up on guys for a while.


-- Posted by SpRiNgS at 7:33 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:32 pm on July 5, 2009


Maybe its just time to give up on guys for a while.
maybe it is maybe it not

or maybe you can listen to what some of the people in this thread are saying

LOTS of choices


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:34 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:33 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Maybe its just time to give up on guys for a while.
maybe it is maybe it not

or maybe you can listen to what some of the people in this thread are saying

LOTS of choices



True.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 7:34 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:32 pm on July 5, 2009


Maybe its just time to give up on guys for a while.
Going to women now? nice


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:35 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from oridniv at 10:32 pm on July 5, 2009


Well, maybe you should re-examine how you fall for guys, maybe a vibe u put out..b/c I used to be like that but when I stopped caring, it all turned around....I believe what goes around comes around karmic kinda stuff and in my case I used to be a jerk too to really nice guys I wish I hadn't been mean to.


Karma sucks.That's probably a good idea. I have a problem with being nice. I just can't do it.


-- Posted by xXxkatiekaitlynxXx at 7:35 pm on July 5, 2009

I know how you feel.


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:36 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 10:34 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Maybe its just time to give up on guys for a while.
Going to women now? nice


Hell no.


-- Posted by cometodaddy at 7:36 pm on July 5, 2009

well maybe you haven't found the right one yet


-- Posted by SpRiNgS at 7:36 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:35 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from oridniv at 10:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Well, maybe you should re-examine how you fall for guys, maybe a vibe u put out..b/c I used to be like that but when I stopped caring, it all turned around....I believe what goes around comes around karmic kinda stuff and in my case I used to be a jerk too to really nice guys I wish I hadn't been mean to.

 
Karma sucks.That's probably a good idea. I have a problem with being nice. I just can't do it.


you cant do it or wont do it?

already stopping yourself before even trying to do it is giving up

way too easy


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:37 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:36 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:35 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from oridniv at 10:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Well, maybe you should re-examine how you fall for guys, maybe a vibe u put out..b/c I used to be like that but when I stopped caring, it all turned around....I believe what goes around comes around karmic kinda stuff and in my case I used to be a jerk too to really nice guys I wish I hadn't been mean to.
 

 
 Karma sucks.That's probably a good idea. I have a problem with being nice. I just can't do it.


you cant do it or wont do it?

already stopping yourself before even trying to do it is giving up

way too easy


Let me put it this way...I don't know how to be nice. I've never been nice.


-- Posted by SpRiNgS at 7:38 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:37 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:36 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:35 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from oridniv at 10:32 pm on July 5, 2009

Well, maybe you should re-examine how you fall for guys, maybe a vibe u put out..b/c I used to be like that but when I stopped caring, it all turned around....I believe what goes around comes around karmic kinda stuff and in my case I used to be a jerk too to really nice guys I wish I hadn't been mean to.

   
  Karma sucks.That's probably a good idea. I have a problem with being nice. I just can't do it.


you cant do it or wont do it?  

 already stopping yourself before even trying to do it is giving up  

 way too easy


 

Let me put it this way...I don't know how to be nice. I've never been nice.


never too late to learn


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:39 pm on July 5, 2009

never too late to learn


Yeah but how is the question?


-- Posted by SpRiNgS at 7:41 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:39 pm on July 5, 2009


never too late to learn  

 
Yeah but how is the question?


it's kind of easy once you think  about it

not hurting peoples feelings

thinking before you speak

and that golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated. this one goes far


-- Posted by amandalillian9 at 7:42 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:41 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:39 pm on July 5, 2009

never too late to learn

 
 Yeah but how is the question?


it's kind of easy once you think about it

not hurting peoples feelings

thinking before you speak

and that golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated. this one goes far



I've never needed to do this. EVER.Everything's always been right for me and gone my way. So this is like the farthest thing from my normal ways. Right now I'm just wondering is it even worth it?


-- Posted by SpRiNgS at 7:47 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:42 pm on July 5, 2009


Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:41 pm on July 5, 2009

Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:39 pm on July 5, 2009

never too late to learn    

   
  Yeah but how is the question?


it's kind of easy once you think  about it  

 not hurting peoples feelings  

 thinking before you speak  

 and that golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated. this one goes far  

 


 
I've never needed to do this. EVER.Everything's always been right for me and gone my way. So this is like the farthest thing from my normal ways. Right now I'm just wondering is it even worth it?


you've never needed to do it and that's why you've never known how to be nice I guess

treating others equally shows your kindness. Sometimes you have to get out of old habits and learn new tricks

you dont HAVE to do what i'm suggesting but if you want to become a nice person, those things help :)

it's only worth it if you want it to be really

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