-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:23 pm on July 5, 2009 When my boyfriend comes over my parents dont let me close the door. They say it isnt neccessary to have the door closed but we arent having sex so i dont see how its a problem. How can I explain to them that i am old enough to be trusted and I am mature enough to make good decisions. -- Posted by Brinkmannjg at 9:24 pm on July 5, 2009 Its their house, their rules.  Nothing you can really do about it for now -- Posted by nousakan at 9:25 pm on July 5, 2009 You can't. You should be old enough to respect your parents wishes though. -- Posted by CoLoSsEuM GhOsT at 9:26 pm on July 5, 2009 close the door anyway? -- Posted by andrethebest1 at 9:26 pm on July 5, 2009 I guess its because he might try to get it on with you while the door is closed, but trust me after a while, they'll trust you enough to close the door, don't let them down though. -- Posted by jsia at 9:27 pm on July 5, 2009 If you're not having sex then whats the problem? -- Posted by Zaxter at 9:34 pm on July 5, 2009 At night tell open there door and say "since your not having sex in here keep the door open"