-- Posted by metacarPi at 9:30 pm on July 5, 2009 For some reason, it's very hard for me. It takes me a long time before I can get comfortable with someone, and most people usually get bored and by me by then. I'm a social person, but I just can't get close to people easily. Maybe I'm insecure. -- Posted by WillFail at 9:30 pm on July 5, 2009 too easy -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 9:30 pm on July 5, 2009 they come to me. -- Posted by Joep0113 at 9:30 pm on July 5, 2009 I only really let a few people close to me. -- Posted by TBMP at 9:31 pm on July 5, 2009 too easy. it's a bad thing. -- Posted by Zaxter at 9:31 pm on July 5, 2009 depends on person -- Posted by drifting at 9:31 pm on July 5, 2009 Im not really social, and it takes forever for me to get close to someone -- Posted by Aileyy at 9:31 pm on July 5, 2009 No it isnt at all. -- Posted by ElectricLadyFlash at 9:31 pm on July 5, 2009 Meta, I know how you feel because I'm the exact same way..and sometimes, the nicest people may piss me off easily when I have no reason to be pissed off. I don't show my annoyance, but its there. x.x -- Posted by alli wonderland at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 I got comfortable with my boyfriend the next day. -- Posted by CoLoSsEuM GhOsT at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 get in peoples faces more. -- Posted by SpRiNgS at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 YOU REALLY CLOSE TO ME srsly though it's easy for me -- Posted by FiendWeathers at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 It's hard. I'm incredibly shy towards people I don't know. Then, once I get to know them, I'm very social, loud, all that jazz. Then if I feel like I'm getting to know them too well, I start to get a bit anti-social towards them for some reason. I have no idea. -- Posted by Daddysgurl01 at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 me 2 -- Posted by BehindBars at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 It's major hard for me -,-  I tend to push people away before I let them see underneath my outer shell of a person. -- Posted by PrincesSita at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 pretty easy, but they dont know everything about me usually. -- Posted by nousakan at 9:32 pm on July 5, 2009 I can talk and get to know people very easily.  I'm a social butterfly but as for like getting very close and falling in love its rough because i have trust issues -- Posted by metacarPi at 9:33 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from SpRiNgS at 12:32 am on July 6, 2009 YOU REALLY CLOSE TO ME srsly though it's easy for me but that's cuz I lurve yeww   -- Posted by mh2003 at 9:33 pm on July 5, 2009 listen to them with respect  , share them there intersests -- Posted by S0LITUDE at 9:33 pm on July 5, 2009 what do you mean by close? -- Posted by ehmusic at 9:34 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm the same.  I'm a very quiet person, and I tend to keep my true feelings to myself. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 9:34 pm on July 5, 2009 Ugh extremely hard. I am way shy around people I don't know, I hate even calling places and talking to people. And then i'll be a bit louder and weird when I know them more. But i've never let somebody all the way in. -- Posted by Aria of Silence at 9:35 pm on July 5, 2009 It's really hard for me to get really close to people and open up, but I find it easy to get people comfortable with me. -- Posted by See Me Now at 9:35 pm on July 5, 2009 It's pretty hard for me too, but I am usually pretty up front about things like that, and people tend to understand if they think I'm worth getting to know. My roommate this year was really understanding, and let the closeness come slowly, and I surprised myself because I was able to get close to her in a matter of months. -- Posted by LudovicoTechnique at 9:41 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm the same way, depending on the person of course. -- Posted by jsia at 9:43 pm on July 5, 2009 Pretty easy really, I'm pretty flexible in social circles.