-- Posted by WillFail at 9:59 pm on July 5, 2009 People say that they are still friends with their ex bf/gf.... and I'm thinking.. WHAT THE FUCK? I have been burned so bad by all of them, and I don't want to see them ever again, even if I still have feelings for my last one. It's so fucking hard guys, you don't realize until you've experienced it. -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? -- Posted by FiendWeathers at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm more civil with my exes than I am friendly -- Posted by glowinthedark at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 ...you gotta look at it in more than one perspective. what if you dumped them. and didn't get hurt... -- Posted by Muddbutt at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? same here.. -- Posted by XxLadyChaosxX at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Really? Because Im friends with all of mine, and Ive never had a relationship end in hatred, notwithstanding one, and even that one we patched things up a few months later and are friends again. I guess you just need to be more selective... -- Posted by Niick at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 awkward.... -- Posted by AcidSilence at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? Im sure its cause they are still hoping you will use them for sex again. Anyway, no, I know what you mean, It never works out well. -- Posted by Aqueous at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from glowinthedark at 1:00 am on July 6, 2009 ...you gotta look at it in more than one perspective. what if you dumped them. and didn't get hurt... If you dumped them, it's more than likely they think there's still a chance if you remain friends. It probably hurts them more in the long run. -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 10:01 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from AcidSilence at 1:01 am on July 6, 2009 Quote: from DaisyMontana at 11:00 pm on July 5, 2009 My exbfs are my friends.. so? Im sure its cause they are still hoping you will use them for sex again. Anyway, no, I know what you mean, It never works out well. Maybe it's true -- Posted by missmess at 10:02 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm friends with one but the last one is fucking stupid and to unstable to be friends with, but its I'm sure i could be friends with my current boyfriend if we broke up i would just need time to heal. -- Posted by colt451 at 10:04 pm on July 5, 2009 its never the same but yea. -- Posted by aleiram51 at 10:04 pm on July 5, 2009 There's a reason why I loved these guys.  They're amazing, and maybe they're not for me, but we've shared so much that there is no way that I could not be their friend. -- Posted by jack8714 at 10:05 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from WillFail at 9:59 pm on July 5, 2009 People say that they are still friends with their ex bf/gf....   and I'm thinking..  WHAT THE FUCK?     I have been burned so bad by all of them, and I don't want to see them ever again, even if I still have feelings for my last one.   It's so fucking hard guys, you don't realize until you've experienced it.     that means you hade an ass hole but what about peopel that both agreed to just stay friends? still concidered your ex -- Posted by ElectricLadyFlash at 10:06 pm on July 5, 2009 It can be so difficult D: But it can work. :3 -- Posted by jsia at 10:07 pm on July 5, 2009 I've gone out with 3 guys. The first was a few days, and he was so in love wit me it was creepy so I didn't talk to him. The second I dated to see what it was like to have a proper boyfriend, then realised I didn't have feelings for him. Didn't talk to him afterwards. The last one I had some serious feelings for for a hell of a long time, but when we dated we couldn't get past the strong friendship we had made. It was too weird. We tried being friends really hard but his new girlfriend is too insecure. In summary, I think it's dangerous.