-- Posted by blackarrow at 6:24 am on July 6, 2009 Ok, so lately when i get Blowjobs from my girlfriend i don't cum, i get really close but it doesn't happen. The other day it went on for an hour and a half and she got lock jaw, after that i was like yeah not going to happen. Also after that i then masturbated because i knew it was really close and i came in like 2 minutes. So my question is what should i do? Please don't reply with just have sex with her, because she is a virgin and i am not going to ask her to do something she doesn't want to yet. Thanks -- Posted by titan79 at 6:25 am on July 6, 2009 do you masturbate alot? if you do try backing off a bit. That could be a cause of it -- Posted by audibleSIN at 6:27 am on July 6, 2009 Don't masturbate for two weeks. That will surely work. -- Posted by blackarrow at 6:27 am on July 6, 2009 No i don't usually, i just did after that situation because i needed my pay off lol -- Posted by GlassHearts at 6:31 am on July 6, 2009 Play scrabble. -- Posted by Maxie at 6:32 am on July 6, 2009 Actually that's normal, most guys (including my fiance) will rarely come from a blowjob. -- Posted by blackarrow at 6:34 am on July 6, 2009 Glasshearts...I did play scrabble, and that for some odd reason didn't work. Maxie thank you for reassuring me...feel quite a bit better actually -- Posted by Jaguar at 7:26 am on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Maxie at 6:32 am on July 6, 2009 Actually that's normal, most guys (including my fiance) will rarely come from a blowjob. Some guys will come easily with oral, but many don't. I don't often, but it feels good and it's good foreplay. Be sure she understands it's nothing she's doing wrong. -- Posted by Moomoomilk at 8:46 am on July 6, 2009 Are you absolutely sure your not going gay?  xD  lol, jk.. But honestly unless your going gay I have no idea why you wouldn't get off from that. O.o  I usually don't get off from blowjobs, but I usually save it for later since I usually go farther than that anyway.. and the not having sex with her until shes ready-completely understandable. -- Posted by blackarrow at 8:57 am on July 6, 2009 Lol...Moo the responses to what you just are wow, and hahaha I know for a fact that i am not going gay... -- Posted by Millerr at 9:11 am on July 6, 2009 idk have u fingered her 1st to make sure your horny enough? -- Posted by blackarrow at 9:12 am on July 6, 2009 Oh yes...i basically give her an orgasm before i proceed to ask her for anything in return. Because like i said before she is the virgin, i know how it all feels, and i gain pleasure from making her feel good, but still no cum. :( -- Posted by allyson18 at 6:17 pm on July 6, 2009 Yes, I'm with Maxie. That is completely true. You're not alone. No worries :)