-- Posted by AcidSilence at 3:58 pm on July 6, 2009 Well, I finally gained alot of closure after telling the girl I liked for 3 years how I felt. She led me on a bit, and finally i'm over it. I feel like there is still a twinge in the pit of my stomach that aches desperately for her, just like before. I think that I can put it to rest if I send her a message telling her I'm finally over her. [I know her in real life, but Myspace is our main way of communication. And no, I can't do it in person.] For some reason, I still have a bit of doubt. Like maybe I don't want to get rid of it. But I know I need to. So should I do it? -- Posted by Skip at 3:58 pm on July 6, 2009 do it and get it over with -- Posted by Brooktini at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009 If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it? -- Posted by sub800 at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009 don't it'll seem like you're NOT letting go, which you aren't. -- Posted by richteabiscuits at 4:00 pm on July 6, 2009 Go for it, even if you kinda regret it after, I'm sure it'll be for the best in the long run? -- Posted by Chasey at 4:00 pm on July 6, 2009 sure, just dont be creepy -- Posted by Darby at 4:01 pm on July 6, 2009 My ex called me after a couple years to tell me he was over me. I thought it was weird and semi-funny. -- Posted by AcidSilence at 4:01 pm on July 6, 2009 Oh god. I'm starting to realize maybe i'm not... No. I am. ...Right?   -- Posted by Skip at 4:02 pm on July 6, 2009 tell her you are not going to communicate anymore -- Posted by AcidSilence at 4:04 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Skip at 5:02 pm on July 6, 2009 tell her you are not going to communicate anymore Yeah, thats basically the plan. To let her know I really don't want anything. At all. -- Posted by JynxWhitefire at 4:06 pm on July 6, 2009 I'd leave it be, if it were me. -- Posted by K r e s c e n d o at 4:09 pm on July 6, 2009 If she lead you on, then I believe that you are doing the right thing. To get over someone is hard, and I have, and so have many others, been there and has stumbled across this question, puzzled and confused in thinking "am I doing the right thing?" I, personally, think you are doing a good thing. You need to move on, and if you don't want her anymore in your life (and I assume you don't), then go ahead and tell her that there is no more communication between you and her. That said, I would go as far as not INCLUDING Myspace as an only way to communicate, if what you are trying to achieve is life without her meddling in your path. It is this, I would tell her: "I'm over you now, and I think it is best that you and i should never talk".   Short, simple, and gets the point across. No point in being all "Oh hi, we cant talk anymore (long and drawn out, by that time you will probably contradict yourself a hundred times)". But then again, even posting it might lead her to think otherwise. Up to you. Post a message saying you dont want to ever communicate, or just ignore her completely. -R' -- Posted by Chiefette at 4:09 pm on July 6, 2009 I think sending her a message would tell her that you are not over her: -- Posted by Scoutindigo at 4:12 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Brooktini at 3:59 pm on July 6, 2009 If it's over why bother wasting anymore time on it? I agree. -- Posted by ameri mexi at 4:18 pm on July 6, 2009 if your over her.. dont tell her just hold that gut and move on.. -- Posted by LoveKay at 4:39 pm on July 6, 2009 If you tell her, then you will have to actually go through with getting over her and lose any future chance. -- Posted by iluzy at 12:14 pm on July 7, 2009 don't do it,that's for cowards,don't tell her this stuff now, invite her to a juice, a movie, anything, try to spend some time to her, don't rush the things out,you may lose her 4ever