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-- Posted by xMoNoxLoCox at 5:26 pm on July 6, 2009

Ok so ive been friends with this girl for 5 years now and shes supposed to be one of my best mates the thing is shes such a liar and everyone knows it and shes constantly bitching about me behind my back

ex1: i asked her was she coming to band practise cause the lads wouldnt mind...she told my friend i said your not invited so dont come

ex2: she told my boyfriend the other night i cut myself...which i dont...

Like everyone knows shes a liar but if you say it to her she just twists everything so you cant win and if she knows shes wrong she'll just try and turn everyone against you...i wasnt talking to her for a while but then she said sorry(and twisted the whole story) and now we're talking again because i hate losing friends and also because we hang around in the same group and its just awkward for everyone when were not talking...i just cant win


-- Posted by BubbleCake at 5:46 am on July 7, 2009

Hey there,

Simply put, this girl isn't a friend. A friend wouldn't spread lies like she has been doing. I think she is bad news and doesn't deserve your friendship. I think you should stay well clear from her. I know you don't like losing friends but would it be a great loss if it was someone that tells lies like that. Also, if they all know she is a liar and does these things, I don't understand why you'd want someone like that in your group. Personally, I think you'd all be better off without her.

I don't know why she would tell these lies. And there isn't much you can do if she tells them other than just block them out and ignore them. You know they aren't true and so does your friends. Don't allow her to ruin your relationship and friendships with these nasty lies.

I hope that helps. Good luck (:


-- Posted by underthesea at 5:08 am on July 8, 2009

she's not your friend then.


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