-- Posted by Chiefette at 3:42 pm on July 7, 2009 When you have kids will you find out the sex of the baby? I don't plan  to, I want a siprise! -- Posted by Scoutindigo at 3:42 pm on July 7, 2009 probably will -- Posted by marshmellowman at 3:43 pm on July 7, 2009 If they can see it on the ultrasound at that time, then I'd like to, but obviously I'd have to consider what my wife would want. -- Posted by Soul Sista at 3:43 pm on July 7, 2009 Probably. -- Posted by Rawrj at 3:44 pm on July 7, 2009 I probably wouldn't -- Posted by Live Just To Die at 3:44 pm on July 7, 2009 I wouldn't want to... but then I'd end up buying a pink crib then have a boy or something... -- Posted by Muffinman at 3:44 pm on July 7, 2009 Doesnt matter. -- Posted by grinzbie at 3:45 pm on July 7, 2009 I want too.... I like being prepared.. and that means buying girl/boy shit. -- Posted by DemonicRainbows at 3:45 pm on July 7, 2009 I would want to. -- Posted by 0h h3ll n0 at 3:45 pm on July 7, 2009 Yes, I'd want to know. I like surprises, but it would be fun planning the nursery and buying clothes, toys etc. -- Posted by riot stopper at 3:46 pm on July 7, 2009 Yup. -- Posted by brittnutz at 3:46 pm on July 7, 2009 foshooo!! -- Posted by Kierais awesome at 3:47 pm on July 7, 2009 yeah. -- Posted by RedNoir at 3:48 pm on July 7, 2009 I want it to be a siprise too! And when they baby is born we will all pop champagne ooooooooh! -- Posted by dunebug at 4:03 pm on July 7, 2009 I did with my son, because he was my first and it's hard with the first. I don't intend to with any subsequent children. :-) -- Posted by Italianlnm at 4:39 pm on July 7, 2009 I am going to with this pregnancy. It means a lot, and we really want a girl. If it isn't a girl I will probably be a little upset at first but will love any child I have. At least we can go ahead and start on the nursery! -- Posted by MamaMockingbird at 5:39 pm on July 7, 2009 I did, and plan to always. I don't like surprises. -- Posted by Chava at 5:50 pm on July 7, 2009 We did with our first and with our second when we went to the ultrasound we didn't want to find out but once the cursor went over that specific area there was no mistaking it. We knew before she would've been able to tell us had we wanted to know lol. -- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 6:32 pm on July 7, 2009 I like doing things the old fashioned way of not knowing, and that's probably what I will do with any future children. For Kai, though, we had to find out. It was already an extremely rough situation, so we were taking any help that we could get in preparing for her. -- Posted by carbonara at 8:29 am on July 8, 2009 I don't really know to be honest. I'd like to know so that I could prepare appropriately, but then I'd like the element of surprise. -- Posted by nikki at 10:09 am on July 8, 2009 Yep, I'd want to know. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 3:10 pm on July 10, 2009 I said that too when I wasn't pregnant. "I want a surprise" It's different when your actually pregnant and you want to start buying clothes and everything for the baby. The curiosity got to me and I caved in. So glad I did. -- Posted by Chiefette at 6:08 am on July 11, 2009 I won't let my curiosity get to me.  I have always wanted a suprise and I am dead set on having a suprise.  I will be able to buy baby things, they will just be gender neutral.   I may let my husbnad know but I don't want to know.   -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 1:43 pm on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Chiefette at 6:08 am on July 11, 2009 I won't let my curiosity get to me. I have always wanted a suprise and I am dead set on having a suprise. I will be able to buy baby things, they will just be gender neutral.   I may let my husbnad know but I don't want to know. Yeah, good luck with that. -- Posted by Chiefette at 5:45 pm on July 11, 2009 Don't be childish.  Just because you wanted to know doesn't mean that I will want to.  I do NOT want to know and I will NOT find out.  Many people start off saying they want to wait to find out and let their curiosity get to them but I am not one of them.  I have the will power because in the long run I will regret finding out.  Since I was a little girl I have wanted it to be a suprise and it will be. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 10:38 pm on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Chiefette at 5:45 pm on July 11, 2009 Don't be childish. Just because you wanted to know doesn't mean that I will want to. I do NOT want to know and I will NOT find out. Many people start off saying they want to wait to find out and let their curiosity get to them but I am not one of them. I have the will power because in the long run I will regret finding out. Since I was a little girl I have wanted it to be a suprise and it will be. How am I being childish? And good for you? -- Posted by Chiefette at 7:07 am on July 12, 2009 You know quite well.  By throwing in an eye roll you are giving the impression that you don't think that I will do what I say I am goinh to do because you were not able to do so.  Also the way you stayed "good luck with that" implied doubt once again and a very childish demeanor.  Had you said good luck and left it at that or even simply left out the eye roll you would not have appeared as childish as you do.