-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:17 pm on July 8, 2009 ok there is this girl i've been hanging out with for a months now. always alone, just me and her. we ended up being friends then i asked her to be my girlfriend, i said if you aren't feeling the same way we can just remain friends no big deal. she ignored me for a week. we chat over the internet one night because she is to uncomfortable to see me in person. we decide that we are still friends. next day, we decide to go take a 200 mile drive to watch a concert, with one of her friends so its just the 3 of us. i'm sitting in the truck, and they are ignoring me pretty much, i feel invisible. we get there and turns out they have no money to get tickets into the concert. i'm f'ing pissed. i don't feel like talking to neither of them. i'm forced to tag along as they talk with a bunch of metal heads and pot heads. i don't say a word, they continue to ignore me. the girl i was hanging with for a months (my friend) runs into a complete stranger around our age and they start flirting and eventually start holding hands, wrapping arms around each other, and at the end of the night they make out right in front of me. i'm devestated, shocked, pissed, confused, everything u can imagine. i drop to my knees and i feel like im about to murder somebody. the guy leaves and its just me and her, and eventually i ditch them and find a way back home by myself. Should I remain friends with this girl? We have amazing conversation when we are alone. But when she is with friends she practically neglects me and pretends i'm not even there. A few weeks ago this was the most amazing person I have ever met, last night she was the most disgusting, disrespectful person I have ever witnessed. I don't know what to do... -- Posted by DJProm3theus at 7:20 pm on July 8, 2009 She's a cunt. Never talk to her again. -- Posted by The Wolfhound at 7:21 pm on July 8, 2009 Talk to her. If she can reasonably explain her behavior, stay. If not, tell her to find some real friends. Doesn't sound like a nice girl... -- Posted by nzdude at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009 dump her. she soooo desrves it -- Posted by Amin mele lle at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009 I wouldn't. If she doesn't respect you enough to be honest in person, then it's a bad relationship.  Forget about her, and find some better friends. -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:27 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from nzdude at 7:25 pm on July 8, 2009 dump her. she soooo desrves it yeah well i know she's going through shit, and so am I. so maybe we were both not thinking straight. idk. maybe i should just only hang out with her just alone, instead of around her friends. idk i'll have to really think about this. -- Posted by Dstarks at 7:47 pm on July 8, 2009 shes a slut -- Posted by Millerr at 11:23 pm on July 8, 2009 he's making u jealous get her -- Posted by nik1 at 2:03 am on July 9, 2009 You got used Dude! You will never trust her again.  She displayed to you exactly what she is made of and if you continue to hang around her she will do it again.  She was extremely disrespectful.  I wouldn't have anything to do with her.   -- Posted by stonedbirds at 12:35 pm on July 10, 2009 DON'T.