-- Posted by renegade riot at 7:42 pm on July 8, 2009 im a schizophrenic 16 year old kid who is in a very serious reletionship. all she does is comliain about how we dont go out or how we dont get to hang out or talk. which is wrong. I see her almost every day. now im in michigan for 2 weeks to see my dad who i only get to see this time of the year. she spends the entire time complianing and making me feel like shit about going. Id do anything for her. now she wants to go to the pool. shes a small incredably sxy girl who  cant really protect herself. she doesnt sem to understand why I dont want her to go. Im a professional Kickboxer ive won a ton or tournaments ive also been wrestling for 10 years i can take care of myself and her no problem. Im not going to  be there i ask her to wait. one more week. thats all. Shes bitching at me about how i cant let her live her life this is the only thing ive eevr asked her not to do. Somebody help me. im about to loose it. -- Posted by Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 7:43 pm on July 8, 2009 give that ho up. she doesnt get it. -- Posted by xNebulazx at 7:44 pm on July 8, 2009 Sounds like you guys both have some problems. She is very clingy and you are overprotective, no offense of course. -- Posted by amber10lynne at 7:45 pm on July 8, 2009 Hey mods, how about you kiss my ass? -- Posted by LiveForeverDieTonite at 7:45 pm on July 8, 2009 Wow, that's really obnoxious of her. -- Posted by melodramatic at 7:45 pm on July 8, 2009 I don't think you are really schizophrenic. Prove it to me. Plus, Your girlfriend sounds really strange. -- Posted by Catzcore at 7:46 pm on July 8, 2009 tell her that, if she doesnt understand then just let her end up in shit, she'll learn one way or another -- Posted by renegade riot at 7:46 pm on July 8, 2009 Quote: from xNebulazx at 7:44 pm on July 8, 2009 Sounds like you guys both have some problems. She is very clingy and you are overprotective, no offense of course. Ive asked her for the first time not to go somewhere and she just wants to go away. how is that clingy? and how am I overprotective? -- Posted by Go Steph Go at 7:53 pm on July 8, 2009 Let her go to the pool, Jesus. -- Posted by Ken01 at 12:22 am on July 9, 2009 She sounds selfish and you do seem overprotective. Trust me friend, the world isn't that bad of a place. Yes she might be hit on, but thats where her faithfulness comes in. Its better to have a lover you can trust to be alone than one you have to watch to make sure nothing ever happens. Personally though, end it. Use this week away to call it and think things over. -- Posted by deerheart at 3:15 am on July 9, 2009 I agree with Ken01. It's a public pool we're talking about, right? I mean, there's always the miniscule chance that there's a crazy serial rapist lurking in the shadows waiting for innocent girls to walk by... but odds are nothing will happen at all. Calm down and let your girlfriend live her life, and when you get back from your visit with your dad, sit down and have a serious conversation with her. Explain how you're feeling and why, and if she values you at all, she'll listen and things will get worked out. -- Posted by knoxville101 at 12:33 pm on July 9, 2009 It does sound like you love her. But perhaps some time apart, from your relationship would be better for the both of you. She's obviously wearing you out, and some time apart would give you two time to think about your relationship and where you two stand. You don't have to break up with her, just simply take a break from her. Hang out with other people. Then after a while you'll see whether you still think she's worth going back to, or maybe you'll find someone who fits you better. There's always going to be plenty of other girls out there. You just have to look for them. Sounds to me like you need someone who isn't quite so clingy, and understands and respects you. But anyways, this break will let you see where things stand in your relationship and also give you a chance to explore more possibilities. Then if by the end of the break you realize that your girlfriend is the onliest one you want, then you can stay with her. If not, then move on. Good luck. -- Posted by twisted angel at 7:40 pm on July 9, 2009 Just try and explain it to her, and at least she is showing that she likes you, its better than her full on ignorning her. And you have to let her make her own mistakes, and seriously what bad can going to a pool do for someone?