-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:52 am on July 9, 2009 How many of you largely base the decision on being with someone on their penis size? If you started dating a guy for a couple weeks, and you find out he's not that good in the sack...would you think of him differently? -- Posted by 0h h3ll n0 at 9:52 am on July 9, 2009 penis size + good in bed aren't the same thing -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 9:52 am on July 9, 2009 NOOOOOOOO, I can't have sex with a small dick it's a turn off. -- Posted by xoAllixs0n at 9:53 am on July 9, 2009 I think he has a small dick, and that he can't perform, sure. But I don't drop him. -- Posted by kimmie poo at 9:53 am on July 9, 2009 If his penis size wasn't big I wouldn't care. If I couldn't teach him how to use it I might think twice. -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 9:54 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from kimmie poo at 12:53 pm on July 9, 2009 If his penis size wasn't big I wouldn't care. If I couldn't teach him how to use it I might think twice. You need a 9in boyfriend. -- Posted by RIMHfire at 9:56 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from 0h h3ll n0 at 12:52 pm on July 9, 2009 penis size + good in bed aren't the same thing   -- Posted by BrittBee at 9:56 am on July 9, 2009 If I really liked him I wouldn't care about size. If after a little while of being with him, we have sex, and he sucks...I wouldn't care. I'd just slowly teach him how to be better Regardless of his size, any guy can learn how to make a girl scream. No need to be shallow and give him on him right away, if you've got a good thing going together emotionally. -- Posted by Precarious at 9:57 am on July 9, 2009 If it's just for sex then yeah I drop him. -- Posted by slickchick at 9:57 am on July 9, 2009 i do like a nice cock to play with but thats not why i would go out with someone -- Posted by ificanscream at 9:58 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from 0h h3ll n0 at 9:52 am on July 9, 2009 penis size + good in bed aren't the same thing yeah -- Posted by bbgrl81609 at 9:59 am on July 9, 2009 nope -- Posted by Fauna at 10:03 am on July 9, 2009 if someone had a small penis, that wouldn't bother me. if they were bad in bed, that would be an issue. -- Posted by libertine at 10:09 am on July 9, 2009 god, what a massively awkward convesation "look, before we do this, don't laugh at my tiny knob." that's really gonna get her going! -- Posted by Kaijuu at 10:15 am on July 9, 2009 If I care for someone enough to have sex with them, having a small penis wont bother me. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 11:25 am on July 9, 2009 How many of you largely base the decision on being with someone on their penis size? If you started dating a guy for a couple weeks, and you find out he's not that good in the sack...would you think of him differently? I would not base a loving relationship upon penis size. Penis size does not matter, period. How would I know if a guy were bad in bed after a mere couple of weeks? I'm sorry, but it takes 7 to 12 months, if not longer, for me to sleep with anyone. That, and sexuality is not integral to my relationships. If he's bad, meh. As long as he cares for me, we're okay. -- Posted by katiemydear90 at 1:46 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Fauna at 10:03 am on July 9, 2009 if someone had a small penis, that wouldn't bother me. if they were bad in bed, that would be an issue. yeah, but in theory a guy who sucks in bed could get better with my help but a guy with a tiny penis can't get bigger ... not without expensive and scary surgery .. yikes so I am not sure on this ... although I have had both lol -- Posted by Fauna at 2:02 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from katiemydear90 at 9:46 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Fauna at 10:03 am on July 9, 2009 if someone had a small penis, that wouldn't bother me. if they were bad in bed, that would be an issue. yeah, but in theory a guy who sucks in bed could get better with my help but a guy with a tiny penis can't get bigger ... not without expensive and scary surgery .. yikes so I am not sure on this ... although I have had both lol I'm not really interested in coaching someone in the bedroom, tbh. there's nothing intrinsically wrong with having a small penis, that's not really a problem. -- Posted by anongirl at 3:19 pm on July 9, 2009 yes it would bother me but if i really liked you and you were a good person then id deal with it , & besides practice makes perfect =] -- Posted by katiemydear90 at 4:13 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Fauna at 2:02 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from katiemydear90 at 9:46 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from Fauna at 10:03 am on July 9, 2009 if someone had a small penis, that wouldn't bother me. if they were bad in bed, that would be an issue.    yeah, but in theory a guy who sucks in bed could get better with my help    but a guy with a tiny penis can't get bigger ... not without expensive and scary surgery .. yikes    so I am not sure on this ...    although I have had both lol I'm not really interested in coaching someone in the bedroom, tbh.   there's nothing intrinsically wrong with having a small penis, that's not really a problem. yeah but sometimes guys need a little direction. a big dick is just something you can't make lol -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 6:00 pm on July 9, 2009 It's kind of fun to have to coach your partner. ;) :P -- Posted by Fauna at 6:38 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from katiemydear90 at 12:13 am on July 10, 2009 yeah but sometimes guys need a little direction. a big dick is just something you can't make lol "A little direction" is a long way away from "bad in bed". Sometimes there's just no sexual spark, I'd dump a guy for that reason alone. And like I said, I don't care about penis size, I wouldn't be particularly impressed if my boy had a massive penis. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 7:09 pm on July 9, 2009 . Sometimes there's just no sexual spark, I'd dump a guy for that reason alone. What if the love were greater than the lust? Would you still then dump the guy for merely not being able to please your lustfully? -- Posted by Fauna at 7:57 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 3:09 am on July 10, 2009 What if the love were greater than the lust? Would you still then dump the guy for merely not being able to please your lustfully? If my boyfriend weren't able to please me sexually at all, he wouldn't be my boyfriend. So yeah, I would dump him. Although, I don't think I would ever fall in love with someone who I didn't click with sexually. It's not about "merely", and it's not about "lust". Sexual chemistry is massively important to me, it's what separates an involved relationship from a close friendship. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:07 am on July 10, 2009 Sexual chemistry is massively important to me, it's what separates an involved relationship from a close friendship. I never did understand that aspect. I've been in love, without sex, and I know for a fact that, even though we did not go a fucking, we were in love with one another, for 8 years. But, to each their own, I wager. While I may not understand it, and while I may find it absurd to base a relationship on a MUST HAVE of sexual chemistry (which to me is NOt a must have), there is naught i can do, except let you live your life, for I cannot tell you likewise. :) -- Posted by Fauna at 3:33 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 4:07 pm on July 10, 2009 I never did understand that aspect. I've been in love, without sex, and I know for a fact that, even though we did not go a fucking, we were in love with one another, for 8 years.   But, to each their own, I wager. While I may not understand it, and while I may find it absurd to base a relationship on a MUST HAVE of sexual chemistry (which to me is NOt a must have), there is naught i can do, except let you live your life, for I cannot tell you likewise. :) Sexual chemistry =/= sex. Sexual chemistry isn't the basis of a relationship, but it's a massively important part of it. Something can be a complete dealbreaker for you in a relationship without being the basis of it. Not doing heroin isn't the basis of any of my relationships, but I'd dump my boyfriend if he became a junkie. Also, do you know when you delete someone's username from a quote, it means they don't know that you've quoted them? -- Posted by JennyColada at 3:32 am on July 13, 2009 One of my more recent ex's had a smaller penis that most of my other partners, and he definitely wasn't as fulfilling for me sexually, but he DID please me, and I was happy enough with it to enjoy the relationship. I've never based my decision of a relationship on penis size, and it's never even really entered my head to be honest. I think that if I did date a guy and found myself utterly bored in bed after a few tries I'd probably get frustrated and we'd most likely end up breaking up (even if I didn't end it I''m sure that my frustration would carry over and hurt other aspects of the relationship). I tend to be a pretty good teacher though, and I'm quite adept at pleasing myself, so to this day I haven't ever been with anyone who I would consider a sexually poor partner.