-- Posted by vetgirl at 11:16 am on July 9, 2009 Ok so i have been with Sam for 3 months. Not only does he want to marry me but he keeps talking about having kids. The thing that bothers me the most is how he is violent. Serious road rage and yesterday i wouldn't let him read my text messages and he threw a hissy fit like a three year old would. He cried and yelled at me. I cant take it anymore he is too possessive, too controlling and frankly, im scared of him. I am truly scared that he will hit me. I nee to break up with him but im not good at it and im afraid of him coming to my house and breaking in. He has told me that he will kill himself if i dump him. I dont know what to do. Help me please. -- Posted by Chasey at 11:17 am on July 9, 2009 Wow, sounds pyscho. You definitely cannot stay with this guy. Just tell him it's not working out, he's scaring you - don't listen to him if he promises you he'll change. He won't ever change. Just get it over with -- Posted by Savannahalynn at 11:17 am on July 9, 2009 you call the popo ho -- Posted by KotaLautner at 11:17 am on July 9, 2009 Oh my God! I had a boyfriend like that. I honestly don't know what to do either, we just stopped talking. -- Posted by return2me at 11:17 am on July 9, 2009 thats a baaad situation...maybe try to make him dump you? just try to be boring. -- Posted by tearsofyourenemy at 11:17 am on July 9, 2009 He needs to get help. Maybe try going to a couple's therapist. But it sounds like you are to scared so the best thing would be to cut off all ties with him -- Posted by Areola at 11:18 am on July 9, 2009 Break up with him over a text/email. It's harsh but if you're scared it's easier. And people committing suicide over another person is rare, he is most likely just trying to guilt you into staying with him. -- Posted by poptartweirdo at 11:20 am on July 9, 2009 get away from him... -- Posted by rancid freakin rawk at 11:21 am on July 9, 2009 does colorado have a mental health act like england. try get him sectioned under that and taken away for treatment -- Posted by dark raven x at 11:31 am on July 9, 2009 Quote: from vetgirl at 7:16 pm on July 9, 2009 Ok so i have been with Sam for 3 months. Not only does he want to marry me but he keeps talking about having kids. The thing that bothers me the most is how he is violent. Serious road rage and yesterday i wouldn't let him read my text messages and he threw a hissy fit like a three year old would. He cried and yelled at me. I cant take it anymore he is too possessive, too controlling and frankly, im scared of him. I am truly scared that he will hit me. I nee to break up with him but im not good at it and im afraid of him coming to my house and breaking in. He has told me that he will kill himself if i dump him. I dont know what to do. Help me please. thinkabout yourself, i garuentee he will not kill himself, he is a selfish person by nature from what you have said he likes himself to much to do it. your worth more than that get out and tell your parents or someone who can look after you x -- Posted by Andie2323 at 11:50 am on July 9, 2009 if you're in high school or younger......i would honestly first break up with him...but also call the parents or have yours call his and tell them he mentioned killing himself. -- Posted by rivera at 12:47 pm on July 9, 2009 baaad situation but break up with him wat if he ends up hurting you!!