-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:06 pm on July 9, 2009 We were discussing how you can't control who you're attracted to in some cases and she said that's not possible, you simply chose who you fancy and you can suddenly decide you just don't like them anymore and that's that. I disagreed with her stating that in some cases you may have fallen for someone that you really wish you hadn't fallen for and no matter how hard you try you can't get rid of those feelings instantly. Has anyone got anything i can say to her for tomorrows lesson? she was really pissing me off :L so i need to go prepared. -- Posted by anepicfairytale at 12:07 pm on July 9, 2009 love is love, maybe she should try it out :L -- Posted by Cunning Stunt at 12:07 pm on July 9, 2009 You're both right. -- Posted by Chasey at 12:08 pm on July 9, 2009 Wow, she's clearly never had a crush on anyone -- Posted by metacarPi at 12:08 pm on July 9, 2009 I agree with you. You don't choose who you fall in love with. If I could, I'd have stayed with my ex bf. You get attracted to whoever is compatible with your personality. It's subconscious.. -- Posted by LexieStar at 12:09 pm on July 9, 2009 I agree with you. -- Posted by aisling1991 at 12:11 pm on July 9, 2009 love is essentially a chemical reaction in the body...out of our control...yes, we can choose who we go out with...and choose when not to go out with them...but really, we can't control the chemicals that are released when we fall for someone.  so...we don't decide...our body does -- Posted by marshmellowman at 12:17 pm on July 9, 2009 Quote: from anepicfairytale at 8:07 pm on July 9, 2009 love is love, maybe she should try it out :L love isn't the same as infatuation however