-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:01 pm on July 9, 2009 Im kind of depressed... me and my ex broke up a while back because practically we were too different- she couldnt handle a relationship with me. She says she still loves me in a non platonic way, which is nice, but im hurt because she doesnt need me any more. She doesnt call, she doesnt miss me or need me for support- she wants to be best friends, because she cares for me and likes me, but she has made sure to completely minimize me as a necessity in her life- It kills me that she doesnt need me. How can i get over this? -- Posted by Zvane at 11:02 pm on July 9, 2009 get over it, you'll do better next time -- Posted by xaren at 11:03 pm on July 9, 2009 if shes your first love you never will she will always be that person but you will love again but never as much as the true first love sad but true -- Posted by chanellover94 at 11:08 pm on July 9, 2009 Weird...I'm going through the EXACT same problem now with my ex, no joke. I keep thinking about him and realized he has moved on and it kills me :( -- Posted by w04hs3xy at 11:12 pm on July 9, 2009 just move on and dont think about it -- Posted by foody at 2:13 pm on July 10, 2009 meet new people/date