-- Posted by badangelgurl at 4:48 am on July 10, 2009 I feel betrayed. My boyfriend consulted with our friends(a couple) about our sexual relationship because he was concerned with protection. Yet he asked me/told me before that we should talk to them and I told him I do not want them to know. So he went behind my back with this but than he was concerned b/c earlier we didn't use any except pull out. At the same time I understand his concern and that he feels bad, I just can't help but feel betrayed and hurt that he did that and don't think I can easily get over it. what do you think? -- Posted by Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 4:50 am on July 10, 2009 i saw the word "Are" in place of our, and i realized , not worth my time. -- Posted by leslieseana at 5:10 am on July 10, 2009 You know what the only 100% effective method of birth control is? *spoilers* Abstinence.