-- Posted by hailneedshelp at 7:18 am on July 10, 2009 ok so once i get off of my period this month my grandma is taking me to the teen cliinic to put me on the pill.not becuase im a sex addict or anything but becuase it runs in my family that all of us girls get the worst periods ever and she thinks the pill could really help me like it did for her at my age(17) but now the thing is she doesnt know ive had only two sex partners in my life.she thinks im still a virgin.(first time was with my bf who had a few partners before me, and second time was with my current bf who had his first time with me) so when i go to this clinic does it matter if when they ask me if im a virgin if i tell them no??cuase if its in front of my grandma i wont tell the truth if its not in front of her do they keep that kinda stuff confident or no?? -- Posted by Italianlnm at 7:21 am on July 10, 2009 Yes they do. They can't tell anyone about what happens in that room. So just ask your grandma to stay in the waiting room because you want to go your on. -- Posted by sixguns at 7:22 am on July 10, 2009 you can ask her to stay out of the room while ur in there ur old enough and excuse my bluntness but u dont need her to hold ur hand in there -- Posted by Gruadia at 9:52 am on July 10, 2009 Even if she is in there, she's obvious has had sex. She knows what feelings you go through. And it's to be expected for everyone -- Posted by xchazzyx at 10:10 am on July 10, 2009 Doesn't matter at all, all they will ask you is if there is any chance that you could be pregnant. So you just need to be sure your not pregnant and it doesnt matter if you have had sex or not. The doctor may speak to you on your own anways.