-- Posted by tballa2006 at 8:27 am on July 10, 2009 My gf grew up in the city, and I grew up in a more secluded area. I've hung out in her environment before, and im not stuck up or rich at all. But, it seems that she thinks i'm always so uptight, and that I should just live once in awhile. Im very down to earth, and like to have fun when I can, and i'm having trouble understanding what exactly is considered "living". She tells me that she will just drop it, but, i kno its gonna eat at me, and she will still be thinking bout it, what should I do? -- Posted by Millerr at 8:32 am on July 10, 2009 idk just be yourself then she doesn't like it dump her -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:34 am on July 10, 2009 /thread. -- Posted by tballa2006 at 8:34 am on July 10, 2009 I feel like she wants somebody more exciting than me, even though she says she loves me and never wants to leave -- Posted by Maxie at 8:34 am on July 10, 2009 Well it seems like she thinks you take things too seriously. She may be more carefree than you. I think you should ask her to be honest about it, since you want to make her happy. If she keeps saying "drop it" then tell her it mustn't have been a big issue in the first place.