-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:36 am on July 10, 2009 I know when I post about this topic it gets old and annoying and it's one of the main reasons I joined LW but still haven't been able to deal w/t it. I need to pm someone to talk to about something shameful. I was molested way back when I was little. I got over that no problem....problem actually, it was a family member who only till recently in my life did we consistently live together and even when I told my mom she turned victim and told me to get over it. What's gross is that he still acts perverse around me and I'm NEVER comfortable around him and I'm told to deal w/t it but it's SICKENING and I need to overcome the flashbacks, nightmares etc...anyone wanna talk? -- Posted by Banana KC at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 I wish I could help, but I have no experience in this topic. I'd still be OK with talking about it.. i just can't promise I'd fix much.. -- Posted by Milky Way kid at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 =( thats dreadfull =( i feel so sorry im sure anyone will talk to you =) ^-^ -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. -- Posted by Thanantos at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem. -- Posted by An Young Guy at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 911? -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem. yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. -- Posted by Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 8:40 am on July 10, 2009 PM me. ill help -- Posted by Ewwy at 8:40 am on July 10, 2009 Talkk to me if youu please, But i m sure i can help youu in this subject. -- Posted by Gruadia at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Just get away from there. Tell your mom that if he's around, you aren't. Go live with another family member. -- Posted by Thanantos at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem. yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.    yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. -- Posted by Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.   yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.       yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.    I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason. you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.   yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here. I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash. I live away from home now going to college going into my last year...I'm so proud...it's just the occasional flashbacks I get or the images, names, etc, I have some personal control issues to deal w/t -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:47 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.    yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.   I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash.    sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason. you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay. I'm not all fine but VERY stable away from home, we have so many underlying issues besides this one in my family b/c they have honesty issues to overcome..so even being away from it all physically doesn't resolve the issues -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:48 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:47 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.           yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.       I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash.   sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason.    you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay. I'm not all fine but VERY stable away from home, we have so many underlying issues besides this one in my family b/c they have honesty issues to overcome..so even being away from it all physically doesn't resolve the issues juat leave them out of your life completely, no calls, no emails, no visits of course, no pictures, NOTHING -- Posted by Gruadia at 8:54 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:48 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:47 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 11:45 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Gruadia at 8:44 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:41 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Days Of The New at 8:39 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Kaijuu at 8:38 am on July 10, 2009 Run away. Oh yeah cuz that will really solve the problem.     yeah, she wont have to deal with him anymore. Running away is no fun. You have no place to stay. You don't have food/water. And yes i know how it is. I did it. And that is why i am here.    I know people who have run away and they were fine. you just need a good plan and some cash.       sometimes money is a problem to some teens. I mean, I don't even have a job yet I really need one for no reason.   you can always pawn, sell books to Mckays, sell crap on ebay.    I'm not all fine but VERY stable away from home, we have so many underlying issues besides this one in my family b/c they have honesty issues to overcome..so even being away from it all physically doesn't resolve the issues juat leave them out of your life completely, no calls, no emails, no visits of course, no pictures, NOTHING I would still give them one letter saying that this would be the last time hearing from you, unless something has changed. Then you can go, get a job, or a career, an apartment with someone, and live life without having the flashbacks. Doesn't sound too hard to do.