-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:38 pm on July 10, 2009 Alright so my first boyfriend and I broke up more than a year ago due to a very very stupid reason. I haven't stopped liking him. He didn't stop liking me. He's going in to 2nd year college and I'm going in to my last year of high school. (2 years older than me) He wants to date me again and be my boyfriend and, well, start over. I'm all for that. One thing, I'm just worried. I heard college was some fuck fest. I mean I trust him, but then again how many people can say no to some hot college chick wanting a one time thing. While there's me who would rather take time in to getting to the sexual stuff... :| I mean I know you guys can say if he really liked you he wouldn't etc. But come on... I'm not sure if he parties but I know he drinks lots. I myself party a lot, I don't drink as much as him but I have gotten drunk several times before and I know it's hard to pass up an opportunity like that especially not sober. Idk how to get rid of being worried. I know it's stupid but I suppose I'm insecure due to all the stories I've heard. Am I worrying needlessly? -- Posted by iamgodzilla at 2:43 pm on July 10, 2009 You are not worrying needlessly. If you want to date this guy, you have to be sure you trust him to be loyal to you. Because if your worrying every second that hes having sex with some college whore, thats probably not a healthy relationship to be in. Talk to him, tell him how you feel and hopefully you'll work something out -- Posted by zombieman5 at 2:46 pm on July 10, 2009 it depends on what kind of guy he is. i'm a relationship person. so i never would anything to hurt the person i'm with. so i would never cheat on them. -- Posted by w04hs3xy at 2:52 pm on July 10, 2009 well just go for it i mean what is there to lose? if youh dont like anyoneesle right now then just go for it and see how it goes.