-- Posted by penumbra at 3:30 pm on July 10, 2009 My ex still loves me, but she doesnt need me anymore- when we broke up she severed her emotional dependence on me. I need to feel needed by her, it hurts that im not... Is there any way i can get her to start to lean on me emotionally again and become dependent? -- Posted by xchococatx at 3:31 pm on July 10, 2009 why the fuck wud you want that...possessive BITCH! -- Posted by Stormblazer at 3:32 pm on July 10, 2009 No offense, but you seem to have some major jealousy/possession issues. -- Posted by raiderz13 at 3:34 pm on July 10, 2009 well i think you should start out by like making her fall in love with you again -- Posted by WindChill at 3:34 pm on July 10, 2009 You can't force her to feel something that's not there. The best thing u can do is let go before it eats away at u.